Do you feel its really possible to Fall Out of Love with someone?
By juls2me2
@juls2me2 (2150)
United States
November 4, 2006 10:43am CST
I've been married nearly 19 years here in a couple months and our love has never been in question as far as lasting forever. Within the last year though, some life changing circumstances have developed and the question is presenting itself in my mind. When you and your spouse stop acknowledging each other and taking time to keep the relationship important...I'm finding the feelings do dwindle down. Do the sparks really end? or can they be flamed back to raging sparks? What's your view....
1 response
@kids2ph (213)
• Philippines
4 Nov 06
i think it possible to fall out of love because we fall in love in the first place with that sweet exciting feeling. over years it develops because of our shared experiences,responsibilities, unions, etc. but after that stage i think we must again try to keep that love alive by maintaining or starting again romantic actions. we may be burnt out by all those responsibilities we share with our partners so we also have to discover new phases to make it still alive.
@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
4 Nov 06
Great view. I need to figure out how to improve the romance and passion, just everything I try seems to fall to the wayside and its keeping the momentum of the effort going and hoping that there is hope. Being in love takes 2 people and making it succeed requires 2 people. I realize stress from life, loss of loved ones, finances, etc. all take a toll one time or another. I suppose the key is prayer and trusting that this too shall pass.
