1 year, 6 months, 9 days and couple of hours being SINGLE
By petiksmode
@petiksmode (2983)
Philippines
July 31, 2008 12:40pm CST
this is the longest run i have being single and i cant believe that i am happy lols..
when i started going into relationship couple of years ago i dont stuck for beign single not more than 2 months...whenver i am about to end a relationship expect that i have the eye for someone new..you know the idea of "person like me dont stay single for long?" i really think that i cant go on witout someone with..ans i am proven wrong...
i am single yet happy and successful, i am not into sour graping or anything this is a reality for me...i have dated some but never did i commit to someone for the longest time coz i think i am not yet ready and i am still enjoying my solitude...life of beign single is happy though i miss havign someone sometimes but most of the time i am enjoying it..
what about you?
3 responses
@rkrish (3003)
• India
31 Jul 08
life is so short, years are tiny, months are flies, days are with us.......so live for the day, is single or double doesnt matters, only happiness is the end. being single is the real dream life to think and do what we ought to be and so much is there to keep the day happy rather than being sticky or waiting others and weeping.......single is where the real secret of happiness lies and no double makes a real secret and leads to search of happiness, hats of to you to see you single atleast today and make the today to happen everyday. hats up to keep a cycle of single days to make a month to years and to a life.
Just tried.....single is single and life is life..to start and and to end.
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@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
i agree with you that you dont have to find happiness in others...you can find such happiness in your solitude and having it with a partner is as icing on the cake may i say..
@fluffnflowers (1594)
• United States
1 Aug 08
Congrats on your single status! I think it's great that people can be without a boyfriend/girlfriend and can make it on their own. Being independent and getting yourself to a point where you can enjoy being with someone is responsible and leads to happier relationships, if/when you decide to pursue one.
I've only been in two relationships, and I am happy in my current one. I enjoyed my solitude, but I found an amazing man that I wanted to be with. If I hadn't, I'd still be single. It's better not to just settle for anyone!
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
yeah good point better to be in solitude than just landing to unworthy man ayt?i am taking all my time to find someone worthy enough to give up my singhood and be committed .... now i am enjoying a lot..
thnks...very well said
@marcroswell (473)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
Yeah right, you have to enjoy every moment of your being single. I actually miss being single. No responsibilities, feeling lax and care free. You're not thinking of anybody's welfare...just you and yourself alone. Those are the days. But, i don't have any regrets. i am very happy with what i am right now. A loving husband and a very bright son...Just enjoy being single coz if you choose to be committed you'll surely miss that!
@petiksmode (2983)
• Philippines
31 Jul 08
i will take your word for it since i know that you have been here and learned a lot..thnks
