Its all head in your head, I say

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Recently I have been doing some thinking,and I decided to ask all your mylotters out there Does anyone in your family like to gripe about other family members?Do they gripe to everyone but the one they have the problem with?Do you get tired of hearing them gripe all the time?Have you stopped talking to them because of all the griping? Have you considered skipping a family holiday just to avoid all the griping?I personally can say that my grandmother loves to gripe,and she is always griping about something,recently her,her two sisters and her brother are all griping about having to take care of their mother,because her mother wants someone from the family their at all times,and each one thinks the rest are not doing their share when it comes to taking care of her,and instead of griping to the each other they gripe to everyone else which is pointless if you ask me,my grandmother is always griping to my mother and grandfather about the rest,and my mother has told me they are both getting sick and tired of hearing about it,my mom has even kind of pissed my grandmother off a few times due to telling her basically she does not want to hear it,and I know my grandfather wants to say something,because last time we were there he told my grandmother that her mother does not need to have someone their all the time,because even though she is 92 she can still get around really well,and I suggested they get her Life Alert or something,but they said she refuses to wear it because she wants human beings there to keep her company,now my grandmother does not talk to her two sisters,and I do not know how long it will be before she stops talking to her brother,so each year it seems that less and less people show up for Thanksgiving and Christmas,and my mom was talking about that maybe this year for Christmas we will go out of town,just so we do not have to deal with all the griping and fighting among them,and I do not blame her,I think their mother is part of the reason,because she likes to gripe,and say everyone does her wrong and she does no wrong,and I wish there was a way for my mom and my grandfather to make them get together and take it up with each other,does anyone have any advice on how to deal with this ridiculous situation?I will appreciate all responses I get,and I will also appreciate if everyone takes this discussion,along with all my other discussions seriously,because this is a serious matter,that is causing a major headache for my mom and grandfather and who knows who else,I will comment back to all responses,and the more quality and length you put into the responses the more I will comment,have a great day.