Have you ever FALLING IN LOVE with ur colleague in the same workplace?
By manya_pearl
@manya_pearl (1901)
Singapore
August 11, 2008 5:38am CST
The more time you spent with someone, you may probably have a tendency to become more close, and later on... who knows you will build relationship with a particular person, just because he/she always work with you at the same time and place.
But its also possible, when you transfer to another section or office, you may break up with that person, because you only have a temporary feeling or love by location... ahaha... or whatever they called it.
Have you ever experienced that?
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7 responses
@davipiero (175)
• Indonesia
1 Sep 08
Soooo many times. My current girlfriend is my colleague. We've been friends for one year until i started to flirt to her. When you've already get too close to someone and suddenly you date him/her, it is really hard to tell to the world. Trust me. BUt i managed it.
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
13 Aug 08
I never did. But that is because I really did not feel like an office worker. I did get to be friends with them, but I really was not interested in the guys at work. I was more into a dark haired, brown eyed type who liked the things that I liked and I guess there were not that many ones who loved country music, and Bach at the same time. It was either or. And besides most of them were married, or were older than me, or they were always with this sense of humor that I do not have. I am more on the weird side.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
11 Aug 08
no i was not involved. but i have seen in my old workplace, many were involved in office place romance. its good as long as you can just keep the emotions away in the office compound. else colleagues will indulge more into it and its sometimes irritating
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Hi manya,
[i]I have no similar experience..LOL! But, I agree that it's possible to fall inlove with someone whom you see everyday and whom you have work with, but great chances also to know him best since you're always together and it will just lead to good friendship!
But, I have a lot of friends whose relationship started at workplace! [/i]
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
13 Aug 08
Hi, pearl, i have been always friendly to all my colleague, many a time i feel that this person has some felling to wards me but as soon as i come to know, i inform them in a indirect way that i love some one else. This keep us friends forever and a good official relation..
But i have come across many people who are in love when they are in same organisation and as soon as they are away / or quit the job .. they breakup.
@lixiaos77 (1030)
• Shijiazhuang, China
11 Aug 08
It does often happen. I ever worked in a factory. Couples often got divorced. Because there are always one married man and one married woman on night shift together, if they care each other for a long time, they fall in love at last. They got divorced. Then they get married with their colleagues.
