Internet Dating

@sumiirajj (1983)
India
August 17, 2008 12:16am CST
Chatting leads to all kinds of relation these days.Even many marriages takes place after meeting through net and interacting only through net.How safe is internet friendship?Any experiences here and any do's and dont's?
2 responses
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
There could be positive results with internet relationship but there are also bad ones. Like when someone gets raped by her online friend when they met in person. Maybe the best way is to be careful. Let us scrutinize the intention of online friends when you meet in person and make sure we are making friends with truly real good people.
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
21 Aug 08
yes salonga ,you are right.but everone is not lucky to get a good relation and good friends.it dependson on our judgement. thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
• United States
17 Aug 08
I have a great romantic relationship with someone I met on the internet from Sweden. We did not intend to find love though, we just met on Rosetta Stone's language learning chat, and through there we became really good friends. Eventually we agreed to meet each other after a year of talking and he was invited to stay with me in America for a month. We fell madly in love and he is the best man ever, I have never been so in love with anyone before him. Now I will be in Sweden for a month this December, and I am very excited to see him again, our relationship is very good and strong, which has a lot of trust involved as well, we do not doubt each other at all when it comes to truth and everything else. Though I found someone online, I did not intend to; I think a lot of people make mistakes by meeting people on the internet, you really have to have good judgment and caution when you do these things because many people can get hurt by doing it. I am very fortunate that I met someone so good to me, if I went to the airport to pick him up and he was not that same person, well he would have had to get an immediate flight back home haha. I don't recommend to anyone to go searching for love online, just let love happen to you and don't really look for it, or you can get yourself hurt, love will find you no matter if it is online or in real life! When you go searching you will online find desperation and infatuation in most cases.
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
17 Aug 08
hi sugarplum,very happy to hear that you have found out a right and nice person for you.but it doesn't happen to everyone and its difficult judging people through net.judging capacity varies from person to person,and when they go wrong in their judgemant then they get hurt and ends up in frustration.you are very lucky in finding out a right person for you. thanks for sharing your experience with us.all the best.happy mylotting.