Do you flirt around with your girlfriend or boyfriend's friends?

@brisk123 (2823)
India
August 19, 2008 5:12am CST
Hi, few days my close friend called me up and said, her boyfriend still flirts around with her friends whenever he gets a chance.Whenever she is away.She said it is ok to flirt around with some few friends that she could trust and that they will not harm their relationship, but she also said that some are there, she could never trust and would not like her boyfriend even to come near them.What do you say?Comment.
3 responses
@skenthal (1020)
• Turkey
19 Aug 08
flirting - guy gets hit on by two girls who flirt with him at the same time.
if my girlfriend flirted with my friends i would be insanely mad. that would just show me that she isn't worth my time and is trying to get the attention of other guys while she is dating me. if she wants to flirt she can do it on her own time while she is single, don you think? why bother going into a relationship when all you're going to do is try to get others guys/girls? if you are going out with someone you should be flirting with just them. and well, let's say a couple agreed that flirting was ok, then how not-cool is flirting with each others friends? that disrespects both the relationship between the girl and the guy and the friends. sounds like trouble to me.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
19 Aug 08
Yes, my friend even I will go mad.I cannot see my fiance leaving me at home and looking around for some other girls behind my back.This is so bad.I will surely feel cheated and insulted.If I am the only,then he should not go around flirting with other girls.My close friend, I guess, she is afraid to talk about it with him,afraid that he will leave her.She loves him too much.But,I don't trust that guy at all.I wish she realizes it soon
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
19 Aug 08
Well then ... the problem is in her boyfriend, why is he still flirting arround especially with her friends, for me it is ok if boyfriend flirting with people who we meet on the street, so it is safe for our relationship, and sometime could bring a fresh situation for us, pinching boyfriend when he looks too long for another girls _
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
19 Aug 08
I know,sometimes flirting can also create a problem when you are already in a relationship.I will not want my fiance to flirt around with my close friends.I will get jealous, and not to talk about the other girls.
• United States
19 Aug 08
I would not like that at all if my boyfriend would flirt with my friends. It would show that he does not respect me or my friends as he should. That's being really bold to flirt with her close friends, that should not happen. I wonder who else he flirts with if he does this to people she is close to? Now if he was joking around and fake flirting maybe it would be okay, but if he is actually flirting that would not be okay! She should just lay done the rules and let him know that it is unacceptable behavior for him to do something like that! Trust is something that needs to be strong in a relationship or it is likely to fail in the future, I don't see her being with him for very long if it is not completely there. Good luck to your friend, and happy mylotting!
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
19 Aug 08
I agree with you Sugarplum9084.Several times I tried to tell her and warn her.Sometime back she had a fight with him regarding this issue.He just ignored her complaints.He never takes it seriously nor has anything to say about it,but he keeps telling her, that he really loves her and that she is the only one.I doubt and I am confused,I don't know what to tell her.I guess,she don't want to spoil her relationship.