i am so argly that i have no girl friend in my real-life

Hi fwangga! I don't think you are ugly my dear friend! Please be more confident in yourself and don't ever put yourself down. People will see the real you if you will just open up and be friendly. I am sure that there will be so many people who will be wanting to be your friend. Take care always..God Bless!

hmm interesting, I don't think you look ugly by looking at your picture. At some point you will find a girlfriend, don't worry about it so much and she will come to you. Maybe you need to show more assertiveness as well, I mean there could be something wrong with how you communicate, like you may not seem interested in a woman that you may really be interested with, I don't know, I would have to know you to be able to tell you what the problem may be, maybe there is nothing wrong at all, which is the likely case, don't be so hard on yourself!

I had to respond to your discussion because I've got something to tell you. Looks don't mean a thing to a real warm hearted person. If a girl won't talk to you because of your looks then she isn't worth your time anyway. As for myself, I've dated all kinds of guys, tall/short, skinny/heavy, blonde hair/black hair, handsome/not so handsome, it doesn't matter to me. What matters is what's in the guys heart. A real and true girl will look through all the garb of clothing, money you may have and everything else and look to see what kind of person you are inside. Once they see you're a good person then they just might date you and maybe even go further such as going steady and even maybe marriage. So don't knock yourself down!! Just because you're not one of those guys with looks like the ones you see on tv doesn't mean you're not worth having a decent girl!! First you need to up your self esteem. Build yourself up and get some confidence about yourself. Don't get arrogant but get confident and I bet you, you'll have a girlfriend in no time! Good luck to you my friend!