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myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love3 months ago

Who among you have been searching for their love and found their partner in life and who among you are still waiting for their love to come but not searching but still loveless? or are you the kind which is hopeless romantic in nature? Are you idealistic in choosing or your just have to leave it on fate and let love finds you? Please do comment and tell me what your opinions?


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jhaded10 (20) response was accepted on 8/27/2008.
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tags:  love, life, relationships, wait, relationship
 
1. myLot reputation of 89/100. mauier113 (585)   ranked 2,278 out of 8,856 in love   3 months ago

Hi, alecz, oh i already found my love. But I didn't wait for him then.. He just came when I was busy in my chosen field of work...I never asked for someone handsome or whatsoever, just someone who will love me, and he just came when I needed someone...Maybe we don't have to be idealistic for someone who will love us., no need to wait, he or she will just come along in the right time.


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

hi mauier113,
Oh really thats good to hear my friend. Maybe its destined for both of you to meet and cross you path together. But where both have the same fate, I didn't wait for her to arrive, its just one day she just on my bed, just kidding... I believe that all of us will have a a partner and all we need is time.

Thanks for your post and happy posting!!!!

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2. sunemi (11)   3 months ago

well, I think it's impossible to search for love... although you would like to fall in love...
The only thing you can do is take care of yourself, get out, get lots of friends, do as much activity as possible and... just look around;)


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

Well who know maybe its just around the corner or maybe it's here on mylot.^_^ well there are someone who really search for their love, have you heard dating.com or any site that allow for you to search a love one? So I think my point there is that people sometimes had search and a lot of people are fortunate or maybe some are not that fortunate enough. Some people are idealistic like they want a specific trait or characteristic to a person they will love, I don't believe in that because in reality its always the opposite or maybe I'm unfortunate too. Well what really matters most is you love the person for who and what he is.

Thanks for your comment and happy posting my friend!!!

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. sumiirajj (1036)   ranked 2,580 out of 8,856 in love   3 months ago

Hi friend,Love cant be attained by searching.It has to come in ones life naturally.It should not be searched and found or you needn't wait.It happens when its not expected.Its happiness is boundless.thanks for sharing.happy mylotting. thumbup


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

It really happens when its least expected and I agree with that sir, well for me I don't have any issue regarding for searching for love really because its not immoral to search for love? I know some of us are not that fortunate when it comes to physical appearance and I really don't blame them really...

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. jinxky (1102)   ranked 1,041 out of 8,856 in love   3 months ago

i should say that i'm hopeless romantic! hehehe well seriously i just let fate to find me coz i'm tired of searching for mr. right. just like what the old's saying, it's like you're playing hide & seek. if you're searching, you will not find him, but if you just let love finds you, you will find him when you least expect it. ironic isn't it..


myLot reputation of 94/100. kun2349 (4398)   ranked 24 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

Yeah, love is just this strange.. Just when one thought that everything is gone and hopeless, suddenly the person whom came to your help will eventually become the love of your life^_^ hehe


myLot reputation of 95/100. jinxky (1102)   ranked 1,041 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

and to add up, i agree with the saying 'the more you hate, the more you love' lol at first you will fight but in the end you'll become lovers, really funny hehehe..


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

I couldn't agree more to both of you guys, sometimes cupid are just playing stupid^_^ It's just ironic that love comes when you least expected it and that too happens to me, I found my lover just in an instant and poof we became coco crunch!!

Thanks for the post guys and enjoy posting!!!!

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5. myLot reputation of 70/100. LimoChang (182)   ranked 6,868 out of 8,856 in love   3 months ago

No.I just leave it to fate because I don't know what to look for in him.I see lots of girls make lists of qualities which their ideal partners must have and I can't see the point in doing so.I follow my heart and feeling,sometimes,even it's an eye-contact,I will know that he's the one.Sometimes when you are not even looking,love will find you.


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

yup your absolutely right, Love do comes when least expected it and though love is complicated but when it comes it feels like in heaven and I can guarantee that!!! Hope you find your partner in life and not be idealistic because fates twist sometimes and in reality you'll always ended up the opposite of you want him to be. Who knows maybe hes just around somewhere or hes here in the sight.:b

Thanks for the post and enjoy posting!!!

 
6. myLot reputation of 26/100. starash007 (201)   ranked 8,849 out of 8,856 in love   3 months ago

i cant just simply wait for anyone. i know in this world some one is made for some one.


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

that's really contradicting but for me your both correct in the sense that you cannot find your true lover if your just sitting in the corner doing nothing, and yes, all of us is made for someone but it all depends on what you like and depends on fate but I believe you are the one who hold your fate and It's all up to us and all depend on our actions.

thanks for that I really appreciate your contradicting ideas. Happy posting my friend!!!

 
7. myLot reputation of 89/100. hornetlover (1281)   ranked 933 out of 8,856 in love   3 months ago

i was the one waiting for the love of my life to come, but it took me 7 years before I realized, that Hey! I gotta do something!

I went online, I joined some dating sites, I met some god guys for another country, but for some reason, we didn't end up with each other, then i tried it again for the last time, and i met someone whom I always say my male counterparthappy

and we are now engaged to be marriedwub

so i did searched for my love... wink


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

hi hornet,
well again I'm so happy to see you and your lovely dog that's sleepy, I'm really glad to see your pic and I always remind me with my late dog who died in accident:c but anyway back to the topic, How interesting that sometimes fate is just around the corner and you just have to do something about it. At last someone who search and ended up in a nice way and I really don't blame those person who search for their love one and I wish you good luck in your wedding and I really enjoy your post and you make my day and say hi to your do to me^_^ happy posting!!!


myLot reputation of 89/100. hornetlover (1281)   ranked 933 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

i will kiss her for you wink

her name is pepper and she is 5 years old and still single... i am sorry for what had happen to your dog...:(

thank you so much for the kind words. and i am always happy to read your discussions and comments... it made me smile and sometimes laughrolleyeswink

 
8. myLot reputation of 95/100. cottonm (208)   ranked 1,023 out of 8,856 in love   3 months ago

i will b the waiting one^_^ i try to search b4 but i can't stand any dissappointments anymore^_^ therefore i think 'if he is meant to b mine, he will be mine', and he will come to 'rescue' me^_^ when he found me, i will sing the song for him:"I've been waiting for u." yes, i'm the hopeless romantic type in nature^_^ happy mylotting^_^


myLot reputation of 99/100. metschica25 (3846)   ranked 992 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

i am a hopeless romantic too . and my fiance found me and saved me, and changed my life for the better happy


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

don't just loose hope and not be afraid to love, yeah sometimes it not the way you want it to be and it hurts like hell but at least the most important thing is that you been in love and just sing the song "all by myself ANYMORE!!!" just kidding anyway I enjoy your post and love is cruel sometimes but don't loose hope. I still believe that you'll gonna sing "It's raining men! Alleluia!!:b

Thanks for posting my friend and happy posting!!!


myLot reputation of 95/100. cottonm (208)   ranked 1,023 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

that's great, metschina25^_^ u've found your prince^_^


myLot reputation of 95/100. cottonm (208)   ranked 1,023 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

thankz for your encouragement, alecz23^_^ i will not loose hope, and when 'the right one' appear, i do think i can hav a happily ever after story^_^


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

of course, your such a beautiful girl and I don't believe that you don't
Good luck cotton...

 
9. myLot reputation of 99/100. metschica25 (3846)   ranked 992 out of 8,856 in love   3 months ago

Hey hey happy
When I was younger I wanted a boyfriend so much! I kinda did look for it, and most times i was very unlucky in love . sometimes, a friendship can turn to more, and that happened to me a few times .
i actually did find true love with my fiance and i was not looking . i think when you are not looking that is when it comes and bites you on the bum!


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

hi there,
That's great and even you search or not, love really comes in perfect timing and when you least expected. Love is a complicated thing but hey when your in love really its heaven. Wow I really enjoy most of the post and all of them are engaged so good luck to y'all!!!

just remember when love fail there is always an option (Divorce)^_^ just kidding Happy wedding and happy posting to you my new friend!!!

 
10. myLot reputation of 94/100. kun2349 (4398)   ranked 24 out of 8,856 in love   3 months ago

I'm tired of searching for my love after trying for years in the past.. And so i decide to play the waiting game because it's much easier.. lol=D

Or maybe i also have this mindset of wanting to be singel for the rest of my life, thus, i dun really search for my love.. I will just have this mentality that, if i manage to have my love, then i'm lucky, if not, i'm also fine with it^_^

But still, if i'm in a relationship, i will be serious in it and wun take it lightly^_^


myLot reputation of 92/100. alecz23 (191)   ranked 393 out of 8,856 in love  3 months ago

Yeah your right, but love will come when you least expected and trust me on that dude! Well its really easy for you to say that cause you haven't found your true love yet. Love really comes in a perfect place, perfect time and moment!!!

Thanks a lot dude and happy posting!!!

 
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