Stress on the relationship.

@cryw0lf (1302)
United Kingdom
August 27, 2008 6:31pm CST
Do you ever find that there's so much stress on your relationship at one time? I mean, recently ive been under so much stress from my family members etc. That i get angry and upset easily. The other day i took it out on my boyfriend, which was the totally wrong thing to do... and obviously i tried my best to apologise and make up for it. Do you ever find that your relationship is under a lot of stress...? If so what do you do to relieve all this tension that ends up building up?
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@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
Yes, i do... being in the relationship can make me stress (sometimes) it give me stress in the sense that i need to understand all his flaws even i really dont like it, that really made me stress. when we have argumentation it gives me alot of stress but if we overcome this stress it makes the relationship more stronger. Stress can be relieve if you already accept or resolve those things that gives you stress, if his flaws gives you stress then learn how to accept him as a whole, that that was his/her true personality. Also by constant communication relieves the stress in your relationship.
@relundad (2310)
• United States
28 Aug 08
I am pretty good at channeling my frustrastion at the person that caused it. So if it wasn't my boyfried that has stressed me out, the most that he would get is me communicating the stress to him. I have been in relationships that were stressful for one reason or another. Those are relationships of the past for that reason. I know and expect that relationships will not be peachy all of the time but if the downs out weigh the ups then I am out! I am a communicator and I am always upfront and let my partner know that if and when the relationships gets to be stressful that obviously this is not what a couple looks like. And I will politely excuse myself from it.
@jaygee96 (316)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
We also experience stress in our relationship. I think the best you can do is take a vacation and have fun.