Why can't girls and guys be friends?

of course man and woman be be friends and even those married couples can be friend to others too as long as they are sure no string attached to that friendship or they may commit cheating of their partner. well, for me if i got partner he is allowed to my friends and the other as long as i know thats only a plain frienship approach

maybe because girls are different from guys. because of the opposite sexes that attracts.

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Yes, girls and guys are be friend. I personally know such friendship and respects that friendship. It is between a lady and my husband. Each of them have friendship since their high school life. The interesting fact is that the lady's family was very conservative. I heard that boys of the class were not allowed to the house of the lady. But there was one, who had the permission and it was my husband. After high school they got admission to college and then university. And their friendship became more solid. They have no physical relation. But deep feelings for each other. Many of the fellows have doubt. But they have not bothered it. The lady married a engineer and my husband was in the invitee. Lady's husband became my husband's friend. Many times they call each other over telephone. They have lot of conversation. I know it. Her husband and boys and girls also know it. But all of them love and respect my husband. Inspite of our living in different place their friendship have not broken. I astonished, how it is possible? But it is possible. There were so many occasion when her husband/son/ daughter phoned my husband, asking for suggestion and also complained against the lady and my husband responded quickly. One of the dialogue of my husband," Well, if you think it is good, it will make your family happy, you can do it. But I afraid." Do you know that the lady is a Professor in profession. It is friendship.

No, my first husband always had lots of female friends. He even trained lady truck drivers when he was a driving trainer. I trusted him, because if he wanted to cheat he would have, regardless of what I did. I had male friends, as well as female friends, when he was gone. I was the one who would put up barriers when they tried to be too close. I was widowed. I am remarried. I have no trouble with my hubby talking to women, and he trusts me. I do not enjoy talking on the phone, I do not text. My friends are online, but it is no problem, anyway. I am not a cheater and he knows it.

Yes I do! My hubby is the same, everytime I have started talking to anyone who is male as a friend he has become jealous about it and in the end I just sever the relationship because I just cannot be bothered with the aggro. Yet its OK for him to have girls as friends and those same girls text him too, yet it does not bother me because if they are only friends then it is not a problem for me, so why he cannot be the same I have not got a clue!

In my eye, there is no reason why a female and male can't be friends. In my experience, it does come down to jealousy.

My huaband and I went to visit a male friend of ours every month. Then something happened on one of the last visits. We all were chatting in one room. Something was said and then I remember our friend agreeing and saying "like last time". I repeated the the words. Next thing we know, my husband got up and stormed out of the room. I chased after him while our friend was chatting to some one else we met for the first time.

My husband questioned me about the last time. I explained that he was there when we had the conversation. He swore that he wasn't there but he was there. I tried to get my husband to remember but he couldn't. He thought I was cheating on him behind his back with our friend.

I am still keep in touch with my friend but I don't conduct my friendship in front of my husband any more because of my husband's jealous nature. I love my friend but I am not IN LOVE with my friend. I am IN LOVE with my husband. Love and In Love are two different things although some may not agree with me and that is where the problem can start of why girls and guys can't be friends.

Men and woman can be friends. I have 2 men best friends and we never fallen out or any think.But the problem is in my boyfriend he is so jealous.If he would know I'm mates with them.But I think men and woman can be great friends.

Guys and girls can be just friends I think it's all the stuff in the media and today's culutre that tries to make us think this but this is just not true. I've been married for 8 years. Me and my husband both have friends and we think nothing of it. I have had one guy friend for almost 20 years now that is all we have been is just friends.

My husband use to be such the jelouse type. It was very difficult for a while. Most of my life it's been easier for me to make friends with guys then girls. Then when I joined the navy, he really had to learn to get over it or else. Guys out number girls and if I wanted to stay sane while underway I needed friends. He finally did realize I was just friends with a few guys on the ship and that I wasn't going to leave him. Life has been much easier since then, but it took many years for him to lighten up. If he didn't change though, I would have left him, because it's too hard to live that way.