do you think it,s better for children to have both parents,and if so why

@annjilena (5618)
United States
September 2, 2008 1:54am CST
there are some good single parents out there and chidren they raised is doing just fine.i know there are some horror stories about single pareting which do you think is better?
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@fwidman (11514)
• United States
2 Sep 08
It all depends on the parent. I was raised pretty much by my mother and she did a great job of being mom and dad to me. I really don't think there is a better choice here, it all depends on the adults involved
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• United States
2 Sep 08
I don't think just having two parents can make a childs life any easier. I think it is BEST for a child to have 2 loving, good parents. But if there is only one good parent in the picture, than I say it is better for the child to be with the good parent--and the bad parent to be taken out of the picture. It would be much better for a child to only have their mother if their father is an abusive jerk....
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Of course I still believe having both parents around is the best. My husband is now based in the province and I am now left to raise our daughter in Manila. Of course I have the help of the nanny and my parents but it is really different if my husband were here also.When he is in Manila, I make sure he bonds with our daughter well and he also showers her with love and discipline!LOL! Seriously, I am now having a difficult time being a "single" parent even if I have the nanny to help me.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
2 Sep 08
(i heard that) parenting is hard because to be a parent it doesn,t come with a manual to tell us how to raise our kids.but you keep up the good fight
@ayenacsi (910)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
It is good for any child to grow up in a loving atmosphere where he feels secure and safe. It doesn't really matter if one grew up with a single parent or both parents. It helps if both parents are there but it doesn't really matter if you are from a broken family.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
2 Sep 08
this is just my personal opinion but when you are raising a boy i think its very important for the father to be there because its only so much the mother can teach a boy.unless mom have some sort of positive role model in her sons life.just like a father raising a girl he can only teach her so much because at a certain age she will need personal things explain to her about her body and how it works some dad feel strange in talking to his daughter about certain things.
@ayenacsi (910)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
it helps if other family members such as the titos or even the lolos help with raising a fatherless child, so that he grows up with still a strong idea of a father figure.
@gabbana (1815)
• China
5 Sep 08
better. kids may feel lack of something when seeing companions picked up by parents, hearing them talking the gifts their parents buy. the above must influence them mentally.
@eddie42 (270)
• United States
2 Sep 08
i would have too say its better with 2 parents but sometimes having two parents can even go wrong.you can be the best of parents and your child still get hooked up with the wrong friends and fair badly.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
2 Sep 08
its always better for children to have happy family. mainly both parents in good relationship. actually parents behaviour make a good impact on them. so bothe parents are needed by them
@eve301345 (658)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
My View is if both parents can be there as the child growing up that would be the best because this will help the child's development. But if the parents of the kids cant live peacefully together then its better for the child to have one parent at a time.
@AbbeyB (670)
• Spain
2 Sep 08
No Sometimes one parent is enough it all depends on why they are single parents kids do need both parents unless they are a really bad parent and then it is better to have one loving parent in their life.