what do you think makes you a good wife?
By newlands6801
@newlands6801 (986)
United States
5 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 Aug 10
I think there is always room for improvement when it comes to being a good wife. I myself think that I could clean more, have things ready (like our bed) more, and I could also have something for him to eat ready for when he gets home from work more. I do from time to time have something ready but usually it's a quick fix. My husband is a picky eater but with that being said there are still things he does like to eat that I could be fixing for him and have ready for when he gets home.
There are a lot of things I could improve on to be a good wife. As for things I feel I am doing right already, well as horrible as this sounds I am not quite sure what to say is and isn't. I am quite a lazy person but am slowly but surely changing that. I don't have enough stretching room so to speak so I can prove how good of a wife I an or can't be.
One thing I do to be a good wife is come online to earn. I don't have a job but I do come online to earn a little bit extra so as to help him not stress. I also tell him he can talk to me anytime, but I need to work on listening (I used to be a better listener then I am now)
@mrsgoodygoody00 (895)
• United States
14 Oct 08
I guess it would just be to love and respect my husband. Being there for him, taking care of all of his needs. Being happy with him, and enjoying every moment that I have with him. Appreciating him, and letting him know that he can count on me. I love my husband a lot. We're very differnt people actually. We might have diff opinions or interets, but I always try to respect him. He's a really good man, I can sincerely say that.
@AMOORA04 (115)
• United States
24 Feb 09
What it takes to be a good wife depends on what your husband needs. My husband doesn't really care for homecooked meals and it took me a while to realize this. So I would get upset and he would get upset because I am upset. My husband wanted a women that would help me with the finances and so that is where I help him out. Also he wants a fit wife. I am not by any means fit but I am working out and trying to improve so that he will be happy. Being a good wife is just doing stuff that makes your husband happy.
@scgodess (105)
• United States
3 Apr 09
I think it's important to be a confidente. To understand his needs as he should yours. I'm a new age wife. I don't believe in having a 3 course meal ready everyday but i think you should take on your share of the responsiblities. I think it is as important to be a friend as it is a lover to your husband. And I think the roles should be the same for him.




