What Would You Do If You Fall For A Person Who Is Not Ready To Love Again?

Philippines
September 8, 2008 4:57am CST
I am falling for a guy who had a traumatic love story in the past. I just can't get him out of my head and anywhere I go I see his face, literally. I went through a lot of things for him in the past month and I am still willing to do just about everything for him just to make him realize and believe that my intentions are true. I understand his plight of being heart-broken in the past but I do hope that one day, in this most challenging chapter in my life, I will end up with him for my partner. What would you do if you have the same experience as I do? You try to go to his place in the middle of the night after work, spend hours of time just staing at his face and trying to enjoy whatever activity he enjoys, try to get close to his family especially his brother just to find a way to show sincerity, try to go to the edge of your pocket capabilities to buy him food and whatever he needs in moments he finds himself in lack. If you are or have experienced the same thing as I a right now, place a response to my blog and let's exchange views, ideas and sentiments of a heart waiting to be filled with much love that it gave out. **though we know of course, as we always say, "I'm not expecting anything in return."
6 responses
@deedeehall (1143)
• United States
25 Nov 08
maybe this is earley for him .and lets face it you dont want to rush in if his heart is not completley healed from before ,this will only make a bad relationship for you guys later down the road.just give him time lots of time.you can still be there for him just dont force any thing to soon.
• Canada
10 Sep 08
maybe i would just have to wait and pray for my luck coz i know i cant just think of myself and rush things out with him coz he's not ready yet. and thats to be respected, for sure :)
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 08
My suggestion is Just tell him, what you needs to do is not conviencing him, but you must conviencing yourself that you can be good for him, soon or later he will starting to tease the pain and will learn how to love again ... And by the times come, i hope that you are the one he choose ... the ended word that you are write is maybe true ... just show your class, it's impossible in this life that someone could live without love and caring ....
@rainmark (4302)
8 Sep 08
for me, i just let him to recover first, im not going to stay beside him most of the time, i don't want to annoy him.I give him enough time to think and to decide what to do,the important is i tell him that i fall in love to him and im always here for him if he ready to loved me, if not and he found someone else,well that's ok, im sports on it!
@alecz23 (486)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
well I know your sentiments, we all do like to love and be love in return... love for me must be mutual not passive... I know your deeply in love with him but who knows maybe in time he'll get to learn to love you, love must not be forced or be one sided...just like the song "love takes time to heal when your hurted to so much" learn to love others but you must learn to love yourself if you know you'll gonna be hurt in the end....
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
i guess i have to wait if ever the same thing happens to me. if you truly love the person, you can really wait until he/she is ready.