Most Remarkable Words Of The One I Love
By ZIGGY22
@ZIGGY22 (69)
Philippines
September 8, 2008 9:11am CST
"I just don't want to show any affection to anyone anymore 'cause I don't want to give them the false hope of love that I am not ready to give right now."
These are the most remarkable set of words that I have heard that seared a huge pang in my soul last night.
As we were talking over the phone, I asked my love of the reason why he has not shown me the sweetness and affection that he used to show on the night that we first met.
My problem here is that this person isn't my boyfriend. he is just not ready to love yet, according to him. I honor his plight on his past love but I do hope that someday, he will be mine and I can call him mine...
I just miss his warm smile, the way he hedl me by the hand, and the way he kisses my lips while biting them and laughing out loud after doing so...
I just missed those days... I hope these dream will finally come true..
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
1 Mar 09
It is very difficult to love someone that cannot or will not return it. But if you look beyond that you will see how lucky you are. Why? Many men that simply want an affair will tell you anything they have to just to keep you coming. You may go with them for years and yet there will always be some excuse as to why they are not quite ready to settle down. But they give you that hope you need just to keep you there.
This man is very up front with you. You at least know where you stand. While it is not what you want to hear at least you know he is being real with you.
If he has had a very bad experience in his past it is good reason why he would not want to get involved again just yet. And he may have no idea if or when that may change because it all depends on how bad he may have been hurt.
What he is telling you is that he like you very much but will not give you any false promise that he can't keep. As hard as that is to hear it is a good thing. This man has integrity and will not intentionally hurt you.
I say all this based only upon what you say here. Please be aware that he may never come to the point he wants to marry. If he has told you this and then comes back for more kisses then look out. He is not the man he seems. You need to just be good friends for now and let him resolve his past. He may very well wake up one day and see that beautiful princess he couldn't see before and you will both be very happy. I do wish you well.


