do you believe in "love" at first sight??
By punkix
@punkix (658)
Philippines
September 8, 2008 11:45am CST
does this really happen today? or does this make sense at all? is it really love at first sight or you just "think" that it is because of the person's physical appearance? i would like to hear your opinion :) happy posting :)
7 responses
@redchase (347)
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8 Sep 08
i totally and completely believe in love at first sight. its happened to me before and i know that it wasnt because of how he looked. the thing that people always tell me is that i was lusting after him so i thought it was love. it wasnt that at all. the moment i saw him everything around me seemed to slow down and all i could see was him and in me i felt that i was supposed to be with him, i could feel my heart beat and it was like i had lost my breath. i finally met him, and immediately we became inseparable, best friends, then we admitted our feelings to each other, he was my first love. its been about six years since that happened, and sadly i am not with him, but there is still this spark that goes off whenever we see each other.
@platinum601 (276)
• United States
8 Sep 08
I strongly doubt it. You probably just really feel someone attractive and when you get to know them then you feel that way other than that i doubt anything of the sort.
@jaysonjpa (151)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
Yes I am back in college a month of june where class just started. I was on my way home waiting for jeepney in front of our school. Their was a girl in front of me that I was in love at my first sight. We were together on a jeepney. And I always watching here. Ow I was shock when she smile to a stranger like me. It was my oppurtunity then to know her name "junabeth". And I did win knowing her name. On the following day it was our thanks giving mass, I promise myself to find her in a crowded place, even a thousand people were their believe me I do find here. I think it was 100meters away from my right. It seems Im really in love cause the whole time it was her i was look all the time. Later our friendship will band greatly. It was my plan that after the end of school. I will date here. But I was sad cause she will never comeback to our school anymore. She said her grandmother wanted to continue here study abroad at her grandma's place. It was so so sad that our communication cut off without a proper fairwell.
@mchavez11 (1406)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Yes absolutely, Love at first sight but that's not usually your love at first time. Lol. I myself had an experience with love at First Sight. I had a cousin who wants me to introduce to his girlfriend and that time I was so hesitant to go because I didn't feel like it or perhaps I just want to stay at home than to socialize and probably have a few pints as well. Unknowingly, his girlfriend brought her bestfriend that really swept me off my feet, had blown me away or I may say dropped my jaw on the bottom of the most core of this earth. Lol. That exact time or moment made me want her no matter what it takes because the love just grabbed me away.
Eventually, we became a couple for almost 3 years and unexpectedly due to innecplicable circumstances we didn't end up together. However, everytime I think of those golden moments my heart beats faster like being revived by a cpr which I really havent experienced anything like this at all.
@krayzietam (832)
• United States
8 Sep 08
I don't believe in love at first sight myself but I won't say that another person hasn't felt that way because I don't know exactly how that person feels. I strongly doubt that someone can love you as soon as they meet you. Love is a strong emotion. I believe you need to know that person and accept that person for who they are before you can claim that you truly love them. I believe that people are infatuated with other people by just seeing them and want to know them on another level. So I think this is infatuation at first sight, not love. Just looking at someone on the physical level is shallow. There are much more deeper levels to a person that just the physical appearance. When we get to the deep levels of the other person, then we can start proclaiming love. 
@mistakesss (436)
• United States
8 Sep 08
No, I don't. It's more like, lust at first. You're soley attracted to that person based on their looks. Love is after you take the time to get to know that person, get to trust that person and accept them as who they are. Love is when you look past the outward appearance and fall for who they are on the inside.
@Amagnimo (635)
• India
8 Sep 08
Well, I didn't used to believe in it and I never even knew what it was - when lately someone else found that out for me. My mom identified it for me! I never knew - I used to feel lonely, and it was when the first time, I was so enthralled - that such element could even exist! Well, it happens really, though rarely - and I am lucky to be one of those rare antiques! lol :D
