whos the most stressful person in your life?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
September 9, 2008 12:19pm CST
i think we all have stress in our life and not just stress itself but most of the time its people who cause that stress, i mean for me its probably my family because they are really stressful and they like to get into my business because apparently they can run my life a lot better for me than i can run it...its really news to me though...anyways i think we all have someone thats stressful in our life and for me its my family but i was just wondering about all of you are you having the same problem with your family or is it someone different? thanks for taking the time out of your day to read and review my discussion and hopefully answer it as well, i hope that you all have had a great day so far and that you continue to have a great day...thanks again for taking the time!
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5 responses
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
9 Sep 08
jhl, Well this is a hard one to answer for me, because I do have several people in my life right now that seem to cause me a lot of stress. But if I must choose one, I will say it is my boyfriend. We have been in a exclusive relationship for over 10 years. But he is a perfectionist, seems I really can not do anything quit right, he is always judging me.Always telling me what I am doing wrong in my life as well.He too thinks he could run my life better than I can.
@chrislotz (8136)
• Canada
30 Jan 09
I am the most stressful person in my life. I think I create most of the stressful situations
in my life myself. We have to make ourselves happy so we can't blame other people for
the stress in our lives. We either let people in and let them cause the stress or we
don't, that simple.
I was having a lot of stressful situations with my husband and I learned that he can't
make me stressed, only I can, by the way I deal with the problems. So I left him and I
no longer let him stress me anymore. We are still seeing each other but we don't live
together right now and we don't even live in the same city or province anymore. So we
travel by plane to see each other. I was just there last week for 4 days and it was
great because I don't let him stress me anymore. It is all a choice.
Alrighty then, talk to you later my friend,
Have a good mylotting day, Chris 
@lrglara (1334)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
family does give us stress most of the time, but its part of being a family. there are instances where they want to get into my business but i've earned their trust. they realize that i am grown up and i have my own decisions to make. right now, they usually backs off.
at work, its my previous colleague. she's obsessed with perfection that she trained me to do everything right, everything to be perfect. and its that perfection that makes me stressed because i feel that what i do is not up to her standards. but i am grateful to her because i've learned a lot from her!.
@missybear (11391)
• United States
9 Sep 08
it deffenitly has to be me.
i stress all the time.
over money, my weight if i can afford to buy clothe.
i wake up at night and stress about having to go to work
and all kinds of stuff.
i drive myself crazy.
@iopkliopkl (79)
• Hong Kong
13 Sep 08
me i believe. I have to take care of my children, and thats hard work all right! but stress can also be good for u, but only in the correct doses
