Our perceptual tendencies.

It is like the saying "Mother is God in the eyes of a child" or having a sibling scream at their parents that their older brother in College can never do any wrong..... Love or even fondness for someone definitely allows us to be far less wary of their imperfections and I don't think it is something we do consciously at all so it would actually be quite difficult for most people to check them! On the other end of the scale we also have dissassociation. How many of us will suddenly turn anti-establishment towards an employer we have resigned from just prior to leaving; or convince ourselves that the person who got the promotion over us is just a back-stabbing idiot that must have slept with the Boss or something! lol. I think we are destined to exhibit these natures whether we like it or not! It's our inner minds way of validating either good or bad emotions.

Everything is fair in love and war. Now, you must be thinking, what the heck I am talking about. But it does make sense, I guess. In case of our loved ones or the ppl we like the intrinsic constitution takes over the extrinsic one. So, we love more of the within and less of the without. We humans, consciously or sub consciously emote what we are. So, our face is not just a face, it largely exudes what we are, what we think, what we feel. These values and thoughts become apparent in our appearances. Even the way we talk, the way we carry ourselves and in all our conducts. Judgment at the first impression becomes easier when the person is transparent. But in most cases, we fail to judge, the outward appearance cheats us outright. We fail to preceive the truth in the person. Here, I want to categorise perceptual accentuation for simpler interpretation: 1. In case of universal personae: things get easier for its largely the consensus that decides for us. We go by the media, researches and what we know from the world. 2. In case of first rendezvous: things get tougher for we kind of goof up most of the times unless the person has an amazing perception power. This is also evident when ppl from different society, culture meet. Our perception, in most cases are inhibited and we are occupied with our pre conceived notions. 3. In case of people we like: the consensus never works. we go by consistency even at the risk of misjudgment. Love is blind indeed. Love is the most strange of human emotions, hard to define. Everything, even the most bizarre thing seems like lovely, out of the world. And, alok, it would be unfair if I not thank you for this disc for had you not, I wouldn't have thought of it at all! That's wacky, isn't it!

Oh well for the first few minutes I guess I have to hold on to that perception but as I knew the person I might change it depending on how he or she wants me to perceive her. but I would not let it be a hindrance to what may lead to our meet up.

If we were been perceived by other people; either bad or good. We still have the control to accept or not. Believing the principles of your own life, it will make you think wisely to choose the real people that surround you.