I delete someone in myLot's friendlist..
By klaudine
@klaudine (3650)
Indonesia
September 19, 2008 2:11pm CST
I always think that here, in myLot, people have a good intention of adding me as their friends. Sometimes I just find a new user coming and ask me to be their friends, I thought it was just another way to say thanks because I replied on their discussion. I took it all as the compliment, and I like having many friends here in this place.
But too bad, and I just realized it just now, that sometimes it had been misused for some people as a chance to make a spam on my inbox!! I don't like that. I don't mind of they send me messages. Some people did it to ask something and I am okay with that, I would be glad of helping, but not with those spams. I didn't report it, I didn't know how, that's it. But I delete them from my list because of that.
I always think myLot is a fun place to be, especially when there is no spammer. LOL. I am so sorry for ranting, but I really need to tell you to be really careful because there would always be spammer out there.
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5 responses
@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 08
wow, wow, relax, klaudine. be calm, close your eyes, feel your whole body relax and comfortable.... breath in....breath out....breath in...breath out...LOL
i hope you don't delete me. i still have so many referral links i need to pm to you. well, not so many actually, just about....hang on....29 links *woot*
i can understand what you feel. yes, it's irritating to realize that you are taken advantage by the so-called friends. the only reason they add just to enable them to send their referral links to your inbox.
i also sometimes experienced the similar things. maybe you notice sometimes, there are new users whose first started discussion is, "do you want to earn big money? add me as your friend, and i will send you the link" that's all. so harsh, so senseless, so stupid. i sometimes got friendship request. and, just after i approve him, he immediately send me a referral link 
well, i don't mind my friends sending me commercial links. i even joined the sites through their links, if i think the sites are promising and i really interesting to the sites. but, well, not that fast. i am human, we are human, not referral machine LOL they don't even answer my discussions (and other discussions) - their number of posts remain 0 or 1.
well, i don't mind my friends sending me commercial links. i even joined the sites through their links, if i think the sites are promising and i really interesting to the sites. but, well, not that fast. i am human, we are human, not referral machine LOL they don't even answer my discussions (and other discussions) - their number of posts remain 0 or 1.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 08
LOL. Yeah... I know that. They are so senseless. I know that there are some good links, but I didn't bother to read it. They didn't even know me and they send me links like that. Maybe it is true that women are more complicated, so that small things like this could be a big problem for me LOL.
If you send me 29 links in a row like that, I would make a discussion under 'MyLot', "Be careful of this person, he is a spammer" plus your avatar uploaded there
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@sutanhartanto (4122)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 08
what?! are you talkin' to me? you are talkin' to me?
is it a threat? are you threatening me? bhoooooo, i am so scared. i am trembling out of fear mwahahahaha....
( that's what happens if i watched too many movies)
i know women are more complicated. but to get irritated with such senseless links is humanly, not only womanly. i think even in the business sphere, the people won't do that. that's not the way a businessman run their business. at least, using that way, their fail is a certainty. you know that in business, a psychological or humanly approach usually works more than a formal and straight and dry approach.
that's what happens if i watched too many movies)
i know women are more complicated. but to get irritated with such senseless links is humanly, not only womanly. i think even in the business sphere, the people won't do that. that's not the way a businessman run their business. at least, using that way, their fail is a certainty. you know that in business, a psychological or humanly approach usually works more than a formal and straight and dry approach.1 person likes this
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
8 Oct 08
Oh wow wow ... Sutan!! You did it again! You see this place from the business sight? I am impressed. It is true that in business, approaching the target market from the emotional point of touch is very important (at least it was what the lecturer told me in the class, and it was my answer for the exam today LOL) I didn't think about that before. You're so right!!
Referral is so much easier to get when you are emotionally attached with the member, you would be able to assure them to join under you because they believed you anyway LOL. Good point! You are getting better and better everyday, Sutan LOL.
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@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
20 Sep 08
klaudine,
If you think it is spamming, you have all the right to delete anyone from your friend list.
But they also have the right to delete you from their lists.
And they have the freedom to rant about you if you delete them.
Have a nice day!
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@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 09
Hi klaudine,
Why you change your avatar? i love that cute girl you post before,..
Hahahha i make the same act about spamming friends like that.
in fack , i make a discussion about it ,here it is :
http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1581749.aspx
then, i always viewing the profile before adding too.
Spammers always look a like.
Happy posting hun,
oxox'dian from bali island.
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Sep 08
is your goal here to make money are just friends its hard to make friends here and you are deleting because they spam you wow well maybe money is not your goal here you are more concern about who spam you then anything else that kool good luck with that.
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
20 Sep 08
LOL. I don't mind having as many friends in my friendlist, but not ones who sent me spams. I don't like spams in my inbox and that was only me maybe LOL. I know I can delete it but if I let many people do that to me, than people who really wants to send me mails for asking for help would find a difficulties to reach me here. Because as far as I know if your inbox is too full, you cannot receive mails anymore
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
19 Sep 08
you can send private messages to him. and tell sorry.
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
20 Sep 08
No I didn't do that. The spam message was really pissed me off and I am not sorry for deleting him from my list. LOL. But you are so nice how could you say sorry for someone who pissed you off LOL. Thank you for your participation anyway, I hope you would have a nice day. Happy myLotting :)
