Do you have regrets for not granting the request of the person who pass away?

@Margarit (3676)
Philippines
September 20, 2008 9:14pm CST
Hi friends, I have experiencing it lately, before my cousin died just two days ago. She requested that she what to see me and my sister personally because she have something to say. I myself have so many execuses for i have more important things to do than to visit her in the hospital. I never though that it could happen to her because she is full of life ,everytime she go to our home she has a lot of energy, you will never notice that she already terminal sickness. I still cannot believe it that she pass away. I am so regretful for not seeing her for the last time. Have you incounter like this? Share your thoughts.
1 response
• United States
21 Sep 08
I had an experience like this 3 years ago. My aunt had been very ill and then suddenly got better. They had told her that she would never get out of the hospital and go home. Then, she miraculously did. She told my grandma that she wanted to see me and my kids. She wanted to take the kids to the park. I had a lot going on at the time and was extremely busy. I did not set it up with her. A month later, she was killed in a car accident. I have always regretted not going to see her and letting her take the kids to the park. The regret has gotten a little easier over time, but it is still there and I think it always will be.
@Margarit (3676)
• Philippines
21 Sep 08
Thanks for sharing momjessie, I am bother right know for not granting her request . I offer a prayer to her to forgive me for what i have done. and i hope she did. I know time can heal but still the memories will remain. Again thank you.