Wait in the truck please  

sorry it posted twice dont know what happened

No big deal, glitches happen! Besides, it was worthy of being said twice.People of all ages need to remember that they are setting an example for those younger. If these "outfits" are a result of a teen pushing the limits now, just imagine what those little girls could be wearing in 10 years!

Exactly! And the way the school is set up, people picking up kids wait in the front lobby and since the school is just one long hallway every student from K-6 walk by twice...once when they come in from last recess and again when they come back up to wait for their rides. Kindergarteners always go last to make sure none get lost, forgotten, or trampled so the whole elementary would have seen her dressed that way....plus the other parents thinking I let her dress like that!

Eh...our school is tiny and doesn't have a list or limit and she has come in with me before (when she was wearing actual clothes lol!)

As for the clothes...this is just one of several issues that have come up since she "officially" moved in. She has gotten way too comfortable for my comfort. We're in a "pick your battles" phase. The clothes are a big enough deal to mention but not big enough to push...hopefully it will work.

I certainly hope so too! This wasn't even as vad as what she wore to her job one day...and then later complained because the guys made suggestive comments abouyt it! She doesn't seem to understand yet but maybe soon!

Either that or it will get too cold for skimpy clothes!

The thing that really gets me is that I know she has quite a few really 'nice' pieces of clothing. She just rarely wears them or if she does it's a nice shirt with a tiny skirt or jeans with a barely there shirt. Ugh!

LOL...yeah that would be kind of funny! I can't imagine what she'd do with a $5000 credit card though! She seems to have come from a pretty odd family that had their hands too full with her siblings to bother much wit her past the age of 13.

At least Stacy & Clinton would be there to help her buy the right things. Maybe it would help her out more than you think, set her on the right path...maybe turn her into a good example

Wow! An 18 year old can pull off that look under the right circumstances, I can't imagine the average 50 year old ever being able to do it though! What are some people thinking!

Reading your post reminded me of what she wore to work one day (they work together in a small "slaughterhouse" around mostly men)...a pink v-neck spaghetti strap tank top, a very short straight cut denim mini skirt, and her high heeled boots. And then later she got all dramatic and upset because the guys were making comments. Fast forward a few days later and she suddenly thought it was fun that her skirts were "teasing" the guys so she intentionally went to work again in the black version of the white tube top thingy, her black boots again, and a little pleated skirt...that is literally 8 inches long from the top of the waist to the bottom of the pleats! It's sits around her hips and just barely covers everything else. It does have the built in undershorts but it's not like they t=really do any good.

You do make a great point about me having the right to say what needs to be said. These are my boys and my home too. Thanks!