my boyfriend try KILL himself...

my comment may seem a little cold, and some people may think 'oh my god, what a b**ch' however, I am speaking from my own experience.
If i were you, i would be getting out now, the longer you stay the worse it may become. He obviously has other demons he needs to deal with within himself.

I can understand how some women may think, 'he loves me so much, he cant live without me'..well, this normally turns into something like 'if i cant have you, nobody will have you' thus leading to some seriously bad juju.

People such as your bf may end up becoming obsessed..and this is not a good thing my friend, this can lead to people being seriously hurt..or worse.

I went through this, twice..oh what a pleasure it was (not really)
the first time..well, i stayed with him. I cut ties to my friends and devoted myself to my bf at the time. Things only got worse..christ, i couldnt walk to the store without him peaking around the corner to make sure i wasnt doing something i shouldnt be (which i never was). He would follow me everywhere, tell me he couldnt live without me, blah blah yadda yadda..then, it just got crazy from there.
The second person tried to slit his wrists..i went to the hospital, gave him a kiss on the forehead and told him i wished him well with his recovery, and i never looked back.
The cold truth of life is, we are born alone, and we die alone..nobody comes into the world with us and nobody is lying with us when we die..we need to watch our backs and look out for ourselves.
Use your gut feeling..the heart isnt always right unfortunately.
Sorry my comment is so long..

it is very sad. although if you want to take it as such.but i think when you love your ex that much, why you have engaged with this guy? he can feel sad.

With that situation, if the situation is not settle properly, the worst case might happened. Suggestion to him is to meet counselor in order to feel better. Hope this help in certain extent.=)

okay this is nuts...you wrote this a week ago but more recently you started a thread about sleeping with both of them and them not knowing...so how much do you really give a crap about either of htem?? Thats cruel b.s IMO

you are also partly responsible for it, it's not wrong to communicate to your x-bf but you've to be cautious, it seems you like to travel the two different part at the same time, if you are committed to your new fiance then be committed to him completely, don't ever look back... dude is it too harsh on my part ...lol...well just my opinion:-)

i am sorry ice berry!!
but you were wrong and you has to help him and has to show him that you only love him and will not leave him,he gave you all his time,and he some times asks you things because he cares about you and does not want some one may harm you,that is why he do like that,i do ask questions from my gf,but she never think like that because she knows that i care about her and want her always perfect you never know people,and i think its your and his right to ask questions about each other??
dont feel bad go spend time with him and help him out,, he needs you and he did like that because he wanted to tell you that you did wrong with him,he could have hurtled you too?? did he?? no because he cant. he loves you so much,i can understand him

Do not lose your love so easily
Go get him
gohar