the winner and the winner

@klaudine (3650)
Indonesia
October 1, 2008 3:02pm CST
Sometimes I see life as a competition. Sometimes I compete with people around me, sometimes I compete with myself, sometimes I compete with time. Sometimes I succeed, sometimes I failed. I remember what my father said about being failed in the competition of life. We would never be a loser unless we are a fool. Because eve if you failed, you would gain something, and by gaining something you are the winner of the game. Loser is people who doesn't want to try because they are afraid of failing. And the winner is someone who failed and tried to get up from the fall and raise to be succeed another time. I was a loser and I was a winner. I failed and once afraid to get up and run again. But in one moment I remembered what my father said, that he never had a loser as her daughter, so that I get up again and I ran. I haven't got to my finish line, but I knew that I was the winner by trying to get up and go again. I knew I would be the winner again when I tried my best to reach the finish line and get done what I have started. ... I am so sorry for the long introduction, but I believe that now you would understand what I mean by winning something. What is your view of being a winner? What is your winning moment that you see as a great achievement? Do you feel as a winner or a loser? Or just tell me something about it :) Have a nice day :)
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
22 Oct 08
HI klaudine! For me I feel like a winner whenever I have achieve something in my life! And I feel like a looser if I don't know how to deal with my difficulties in life and just to ignore it, instead of dealing with it! And I'm sure that I'm still in long race to get the best achievement in my life and to feel that I'm a big winner. Thanks!
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 08
Hi CJay77. I think it is good to feel like a winner. When you are able to achieve something in your life, that should be the greatest moment. I remember the first and the only, the moment when I got straight A for all subject in my first semester in the university. It was really great, I was really proud of that. It proved something. I proved the world that I was the winner. And now, I just feel like a loser, because of there are so much trouble in my life and I don't know how to solve it.
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
27 Oct 08
Hi klaudine! I'm sure that you will a find a way to solve your problem at the moment. Good luck and I wish you all the best. Thanks for the BR, you made my day.