Can't Sleep...A lil Restless!!!
By tlb0822
@tlb0822 (1410)
United States
October 2, 2008 12:00am CST
Early I wrote about how my fiance was possibly cheating on me. Well when he got home from work I asked him all about what was going on. He said that the girls were just friends and that he didn't even talk to him. And I really haven't found any proof other wise. So I kinda feel like I jumped te gun thinking that he was cheating, but I don't know. I just need to be more vigilant. We went to bed, and of course my daughter took up my spot so I couldn't get comfortable so here I sit, tired but unable to sleep. Ever have a night when you feel restless and can't sleep even though your tired? Have you ever had an instance like this with your spouse, and felt guilty afterward?
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@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
4 Oct 08
Ok so you did talk to him. but you don't know if you can trust him. maybe you need to try another thing. when he is out for work, create a fake account on that site, put a fake picture and status if necessary then try to befriend either him or one of the girls that you saw on his profile. you might want to create this account on a public computer just in case he is curious (or you make a blooper) and wants to track down your IP before you find the proof you need.
it's better to do this yourself, but if you have a friend you can trust to do it, it may work as well because if you are restless when you are doing this, it won't help. Again don't rule out possibility that he isn't lying, if you made a blooper and he finds out, it can actually end your relationship. So calm down and take your time to think before you pick a move.
Now to answer your question, I have had restless nights because of money problem, not relationship problem. I did feel guilty about it, I had my part making big unnecessary expenses and now it backfired on us when the economy isn't good.
