Friends a $#*!up how do you tell him to chill out already. / myLot

United States

October 3, 2008 1:35pm CST

I have a friend that has been a complete disaster lately and he goes thru these phases. There'll be months were he just sits around and lays low and then all of a sudden he'll be goin out everynight and poppin pills and crashin his motorcycle and everything else. He just needs to go out like once a month like all of his other married friends but he just doesn't settle down. He feels he needs to bender all the time. How do i tell him to chill out in a friend way, without coming on as the sissy i guess?

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Bebekoh

@lrglara (1334)

• Philippines

3 Oct 08

i just think you have to be patient with him and be there to support him. i dont see anything wrong of giving him a slap of reality check once in a while. i mean, like you said, he's married or something. am i right? these phases he's going through will pass once he realize that he's got responsibilities and GROWS UP. but be sure to make him feel that you're there to support him. again! as in again! a SLAP of reality check! :)