How would you say no...
By mayrose
@mayrose (323)
Philippines
October 3, 2008 11:53pm CST
Somebody asked you for a date politely, actually he is asking you so many times but you always have excuses, but his time you want the person to stop it because your not really interested to date him. How would you say it, if you know that it will really break his heart. As for me i will say it in a nice way, i know it will break his heart but it will break his heart more if i let him keep hoping for something. I don't want him to look stupid and keep false, i would say the true rather than lie to him.
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3 responses
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
4 Oct 08
It sounds like this guy wont stop until you just tell him that you are not interested. Making up excuses might put him off for a while, but he doesn't seem to be getting the message so I'm afraid that you are just going to have to tell him that your not interested and you don't appreciate the constant badgering.
In the future I would advise you to just tell guys NO if you aren't interested instead of making up excuses as that leads guy to think that you might go out with them on a later date. I hope this works out okay for you.
Hugs, Tianna
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
4 Oct 08
Your best bet is to sit him down and have a talk with him. tell him that he's a nice guy but that you are just not interested in a relationship with him. Most guys would prefer an honest talk rather than always having their hopes up for nothing 
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
4 Oct 08
agree for the date . fix up every thing and at the last moment have some realistic excuse!!
or better make it this time and try to enjoy it!!
