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 my sister was reluctant about leaving and separating from her irresponsible husband, she is enduring his treatment of not providing for the family but rather take advantage of her in taking some of the food and things and give that to his mistress..i am so angry about this, but i can't do anything about it, considering my sister first and her decision on their family situation..my mom who was with them and actually is the one who is helping my sister in taking care of the kids and the expenses became so sickly lately because of this stress that my brother in law is giving them... i do pity my mom and my sister about this miserable person who is my sister husband...what can you suggest about this issue to help my sister?
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1.  mechanicNOT62 (1589) | 1 year ago |  You've got to be kidding! If I understand you correctly, not only is he not providing for the family but stealing from it to give to a mistress?! Bad joke, my friend, but a joke nonetheless, because I would most certainly find something to do about it. That's no way to live and your sister is offering herself as an unworthy sacrifice for a useless cause. What does that joker have that makes your sister so submissive to him? Or what does she need from him? If what you're saying is all true, a divorce is in order and he should be forced to pay you sister at least for the children's sustenance or something. Your sis needs a good talking to. Maybe by a priest, pastor or a lawyer.
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 arnoldream (252) | 1 year ago | actually dont believe either but its true and i am planning to talk to my sis asap i do really pity her for this miserable life with her husband...and i wonder maybe my mom got sick because of these stress and problems...thanks for your caring response i will do exactly what it seems necessary to make things right for my sister just what you have suggested...thanks friend | |
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| mechanicNOT62 (1589) | 1 year ago | Please do. You're probaby right that your mother's heart is sick from such a situation and besides, this is what all the noise about abuse is all about. | |
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| arnoldream (252) | 1 year ago | i will tell you what happen if i made it to talk to them very soon...thanks again my friend... | |
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| 2. dustinnikki (192) | 1 year ago |  If this was my sister, I would definitely tell her to leave! Your sister needs to get away from this especially since there are kids involved. This is no way for your sister or her kids to live. I am so sorry about your mom as well. But she really needs a talking to and hopefully something can be done. If it is a family thing keeping your sister there, she needs to know that you and your mom will be there for her without her husband. That's no way to live no matter what the situation is.
Good luck with you and your sister and hopefully things will change. I hope your sister can get away before something else happens. All I can say is to really talk to her because you obviously can't force someone to do something they don't want to do. I know there are kids involved but it's not fair to your mom all she has done. She doesn't need to be with someone like that. Good luck!
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| arnoldream (252) | 1 year ago | i really thank you for that word of concern...i'm planning to talk to her very soon concerning this matter...and i hope things will be all right...thanks friend... | |
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| dustinnikki (192) | 1 year ago | Your welcome and good luck. Your sister is lucky to have a brother like you! | |
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3.  Shar1979 (2279) | 1 year ago |  oh yeah for sure i wll tell my sister to leave her husband. i would never want my sister to be treated really bad as she deserves somebody else better.
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| arnoldream (252) | 1 year ago | thanks for the response.. and the thing really affects my sister and her children..and she was very confused about this situation..for she dont want her family be broken... | |
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| 4. xzg555898 (145) | 1 year ago |  as a sister,arnolddream,i think you have the responsibility to ask your sister to leave,try you best to persuade her,if you can not,ask your relatives,her friends,your mom ...any persons involved sor help,this discussion have been here for two weeks, i hope this situation has been improved,if not,do not wait,just do it asap,if all the persons get together to persuade her, i think she will make a decide to leave that guy
whising your whole family a happy life .
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