Kota is dyslexic.....

@peedielyn (1207)
United States
October 6, 2008 8:48am CST
Well some of you know that I have alittle guy that is in bad shape. He can do math perfectly but he cannot read very good. He turns words around, and writes them wrong. I am dyslexic and graduated with honors because I overcame it. The problem is that I have no idea how I got out of it. I didn't just grow out of it, I remember the classes that I had to take in high school to make sure I could graduate, but for the life of me, I do not remember what they did to help me get out of the backwards funk. He is such a smart little man, but he is having difficulties in reading and cannot remember what he has read. This is frustrating! Do you have any suggestions on how to help out? Do you have a dyslexic family member? If so, how did you help them? Any help would be appreciated!
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@grammasnook (1871)
• United States
6 Oct 08
First off just do not assume that he is dyslexic, many children when they are young do this. Write letters backwards and some even the whole word. Reasons and facts are well they do not have the attention span and lots of time they just cant be bothered. This is very common in children that are up to the age of 6. Childs thinking if I do not do it right then I do not have to do it. Yes my friend at very early stages in life they learn how to manipulate. The fact that he doesnt see his numbers backwards is a big sign that he is not dyslexic. He enjoys math and that is why he does so well with it. He may have a reading disabilty that can be researched but honestly I do not think he is dyslexic. Make sure to cover all aspects before making this assumption.
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@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
6 Oct 08
I apologize, I forgot to put in there that he was tested. He has gone through all the testing at school and then I took him to the Sylvan Learning center locally. They have deemed him dyslexic. He is 7 and so smart, I just don't want him to think that one little bump in the road is going to keep him from excelling. Thank you for the response!
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@GardenGerty (169450)
• United States
6 Oct 08
Whatever the label, the fact is he learns differently, but he does learn. I hope that you may get some help from Sylvan, and then learn what you can do at home. Sometimes you have to pay for help at first. Why does your school not offer him extra help?
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• United States
6 Oct 08
Did you try contacting the school? They should have your records on file, or you can just ask them. What about searching online to see if there is anything you can do? What may work for you my not work for your son. Anyway, on occasion I see numbers backwards but I'm not dyslexic, It usually happens when I'm stressed or tired.
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@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
6 Oct 08
Thank you for responding NuclearRabbit! I didn't even think about asking the school. I mean, they tested him and then I sent him somewhere else to find out if they were right. He is dyslexic in his reading. I will do that here in a bit and see what they have to say about my records. That is a great idea! I have looked on the internet and most of the sites I have run into want me to buy this or pay for that. I will go ahead and pay Sylvan (it's so expensive though) to see what they can do. I will keep you posted!
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@GardenGerty (169450)
• United States
6 Oct 08
Does he not get any special help in school? Dyslexia is a learning disability. If not, you might work with him to see what strategies help. For one thing, if you have some colored cellophane, or some clear acetate and a permanent marker you can make him a reading guide to put over the line he is reading in a book. If you cannot do that, try teaching him to put a flat marker under the line he is reading. When he practices spelling words, which is a part of reading, or phonics, have him use his dominant hand, two fingers, index and middle, and trace them out while he practices them. Trace them on the table, or on something with more tactile input, like a carpet or a piece of sandpaper. I know that he not only reversed b and d but probably n and u, and p and q for sure. He is a smart guy and has trained himself already with math, but he probably had a lot of tactile things given to him, we tend to do manipulatives a lot in math. Get him magnetic refrigerator letters and a cookie sheet, so he can move the letters around. Try having him look through different colors of filters, like colored plastic and see if any one of those helps his brain sequence better. I am not an expert by any means, and some of what I need to tell you, I cannot draw or write here and explain adequately. I do not work in the schools anymore, but some materials you might get will box the letters as he reads. I do not know if this will help at all.
@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
6 Oct 08
Thank you. Now that I think about it they used to use green plastic pages on me. I used to be able to concentrate better with green. I forgot all about that. I will try what you suggested and see if that helps. Anything at this point will be somewhat helpful. Thank you so much for the help!!
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