Virginity: Does it also apply to men??

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@kissie34 (2294)
Philippines
October 13, 2008 12:19am CST
Does virgin!ty only apply to woman/girls?? I had seen so many post here in mylot asking to boys/men if it's ok if their wife is not a v!rgin anymore when they got married, or what will be their reaction if they knew that their girl isn't virgin anymore.. So, I'm just wondering if virgin!ty only apply/appears to woman/girl or is it also important or appears to men/boys?? What I'm trying to point out here is that why is it when it comes to virgin!ty, we always asked this to girls/woman?? Does boys/man value virgin!ty too or not?? When it comes to married here in the Philippines, before woman must be a v!rgin so that she will get the respect of people or the society. Woman before must be virg!n before they got married because accordingly this is the best gift that they can give to their husband. Well, today's generation somehow of course, there are still other Filipina who had the same principle like before but there are also others who are engaging s3x already before married.. If a girl must be a virgin before getting married then does this mean that man must also be a virgin before getting married?? Or it doesn't matter whether man is virgin or not before they get married because what matter more is the woman virginity and not man??Girl/Woman, does it matter to you whether your husband is virgin or not before your marriage?? Or you don't care at all?? How would you know if a guy isn't a virgin anymore??lol.. Well, I guess you are already laughing at me because I'm asking this kind of questions.. Oh well, maybe I'm just curious about this issue.. I hope you will be able to express your ideas/opinions/thoughts about my discussion.. Thanks for the time.. Happy posting..
3 responses
@littleowl (7157)
14 Oct 08
Hi kissie-that is a very good point..it is always the women who have to be 'Pure@ before marriage..why can't men be..the same principle should be the same especially if the culture is that way inclined about the woman/women to me it isn't fair that it always falls onto the women and it doesn't really matter if either the man or woman concerned have had relationships before as the main things that do count is Love, Trust, Communication and Unity between them when they do marry..also I do beleive that living together instead of marriage also works out for the best instead of marriage...littleowl
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
I agree with you, it really isn't fair that only women must be pure before marriage.. If women has this kind of principle then men should also have the same principle.. Well, I think it is up to the person on how they value marriage.. Thanks for sharing.. Happy posting..
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@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
13 Oct 08
That's what you call, double standards. Thus, if only I could demand for a virgin guy, then I would. Honestly, I would like my guy to be a virgin. I will never know this unless he tells me honestly.
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
15 Oct 08
lol .. I'm just wondering why women can't know if the guy is virgin or not unless he tells the truth but boys can find it out whether the girl is virgin or not even though she will or not tell the truth... Don't you think that this is unfair?? I'm just too curious.. Thanks for responding...
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@dong1970 (1572)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
Virginity for men?I don't think so if a man reach his matured age if he is still a virgin.I am thinking if there is still a virgin Guy.
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@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
23 Oct 08
But why??? What's wrong being a virgin guy?? Why did you say that when a guy reached his matured age he isn't a virgin anymore?? What is the "BIG DEAL BEING A VIRGIN"?? Well,who knows there is still a virgin guy out there??? Let just see if he will admit that he still a virgin... Anyway, thanks for sharing..