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If you quarrelled with your boyfriend or girlfriend,will you say sorry first? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love1 year ago

In our daily life,we are always leading a happy life.But sometimes,there is some discrimination with different things,and sometimes,we even quarrelled with each other.If it did happen,will you say sorry to your lovers first?will you leave the quarrel to tomorrow?At the same time,I wish you lead a happier life without quarrel.

 
 
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tags:  sorry, quarrel, quarrel with boyfriend or girlfriend, situation, hurt
 
1. myLot reputation of 94/100. patzel88 (1808)   ranked 296 out of 11,820 in love   1 year ago

i dont give a word easily if i know that i never have done wrong, i want to have and happy living and peaceful life but the one much say that word is the one who have done a mistakes that it turn out into quarrel.


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

But sometimes,the people think himself is right,the other is wrong,and if there is no sollution,the contradiction will be bigger and bigger.If you want to maintain the relationship.will you say sorry?

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2. myLot reputation of 83/100. eiram25 (628)   ranked 3,311 out of 11,820 in love   1 year ago

n0pe,i don't.most of the time,it's my bf's fault why we quarell anyway.but i say also say sorry first when it's me who is at fault.i'm not a hypocrite and i also admit my mistakes as i'm not perfect.having a relationship without quarrels and misunderstandings is close to impossible.me and my bf are two different individuals so conflicts will always arise.it's a matter of compromise,collaboration and acceptance. thumbupthumbuphappy mylotting!


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

I also think no quarrels and misunderstanding in two people life is impossible.Sometimes,i heard that if there are no quarrels and misunderstanding,there is something wrong with there relationship.maybe there is the third people.
we need to understanding eachother .sometimes we need collaboration and compromise.

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3. myLot reputation of 70/100. AltheGreat2430 (1681)   ranked 2,208 out of 11,820 in love   1 year ago

hey there! i would apologize first, only if I'm the one at fault. I would not let it last another day. I'd fix the matter and talk to my girlfriend. Have a nice day.


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

I also think the contradition should be settlled in time,or the contradiction will be worse and worse.
How do you think it is her fault rather than yours?

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. maxilimian (850)   ranked 75 out of 11,820 in love   1 year ago

It depends on who start the quarell first ... i won't say sorry to any mistakes which i didn't do it glare


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

usually we donot know who start the quarrel,and how can i make sure who start it?
could you tell me the method to judge it?
thank u

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5. myLot reputation of 56/100. savitha_r86 (655)   ranked 443 out of 11,820 in love   1 year ago

I have never heistated to say a SORRY if I feel that I have really done something wrong. When that's not the case I will not speak immediately,wil just wait for the other person to get back,will not expect a SORRY ofcourse. But if he doesn't I will not make things go beyond hands,will sit and speak and try to resolve the problem,after all the relationship is more important than our ego. Will make him realise as to what he did and why I was hurt. A person who compromises is not going to lose anything like self respect and all,infact we just gain mental peace and few good relationships:)

Cheers:)


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

hehe,
what you do is the same as my girlfriend .
As a man .maybe we men need to learn more about the womens' psychology.
In relationship.evey people is equal.and every people should be respected to each other.
Did you agree with me?


myLot reputation of 56/100. savitha_r86 (655)   ranked 443 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

Yessss,I totally agree.. Men know everything,but then they are so rebellious not to follow them. He he he:-P Take care!! Keep smiling

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6. myLot reputation of 84/100. loxion (780)   ranked 1,072 out of 11,820 in love   1 year ago

Sometime is not easy to say the word sorry depending on a situation but first you have to say whats on your mind no matter how you say it.you may have a fight with your lover about something and through your anger you can say all the things that doesnt make you happy,sometimes it can hurt but you have just said whats on your mind and you can say "sorry" in the end but atleast know they know what you want and what you don't


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

thank you .in some way,the quarrel is the way of your expression.you do know what you want and what you donot want.but do you think this is the best way to express yourself? maybe the more communication,the more you know each other.


myLot reputation of 84/100. loxion (780)   ranked 1,072 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

it depends on what kind of person you are dealing with,if is someone who just can't listen to you and what can you do?you find the intimidating way but you should not always use it the last thing you wanna see is the two of you being apart


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

yes,that is true,and i have not find a good way to deal with the situation that you said yet.there are many complex situation that we can not control,whatever,we are get together to discuss this prolem,it means we pay attention to it,we do not want it to happen
and the same time,i want someone to give us a good way to cope with this situation,because if we can not solve this problem in time,there will be much more trouble with us.

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7. silent2crazy (3)   1 year ago

No GF now,I have seen this before, And I also think I can do that esaily. But the tures is much more times the first one saied "sorry" is not me. It's really hard to be a man.


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

I think to say sorry to others' is not a easy thing to a man.But to your darling,could you say that word?
sometimes,i say sorry to my girlfriend, i love her,so i would like to say sorry to maintain the relations.

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8. sharon1989 (94)   ranked 10,791 out of 11,820 in love   1 year ago

If I want to continue to be together with him and the faults is mine,I will apologize to him.But if I want to break up with him,I won't.


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

thanks for your view,maybe this is a way to deal with the situation

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. despompa (366)   ranked 3,575 out of 11,820 in love   1 year ago

quarrel don't just happen to boyfriend or girlfriend, it is also applicable to husband and wife. if me and my hubby had a misunderstanding, i don't say sorry. i just let it slip away when it's already time to settle things. i don't want to insist that we should be doing these and that when its still very premature to do so. i also don't want to jump ahead of things, which are not yet to happen. plus, i always tell my husband that what's the point of saying sorry if you can't avoid to repeat the same mistakes again? for me, it's like the been there done that thing.


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

that is a good method,but not everyone can cope with the problem like you,sometimes,if there is a misunderstanding,and we do not deal with it in time
there may be much more misuderstanings coming to us,so we can not be waiting,we must do it in time

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10. myLot reputation of 95/100. kuer86 (1168)   ranked 236 out of 11,820 in love   1 year ago

yeah,this is a good question.well,i don't like quarrelling very much.
if i have quarrelled with my boyfriend, i will stay where i am.maybe for a day or two days.
and sometimes i will cry for some time then let it go.
i hate the feeling we have when we quarrelled.
well,i don't have a boyfriend now.i wish i did.
you can know that by my using of 'if'.you know i always quarrelled with my parents,but it doesn't last long.cause i we all don't like the atmosphere of quarrelling.

by the way i used to stay angry and didn't speak until my parents got peace with me.i think that was very immature.but i get mature now.so i will show my happy with them frist now!


myLot reputation of 84/100. xzg555898 (145)   ranked 1,589 out of 11,820 in love  1 year ago

thank you for your comment,a few years ago,i did also quarrell with my mom,i could not stand many things of her,but now,when i am far away from my hometown,i find there is no misunderstanding,in stead,i miss her very much,when after i writting thses words i think i must give my mother a call now,thank you again .

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