does happy ever after don't exist anymore?

Divorce being available or not doesn't change the liklihood of a "happy ever after". There are just as many stories of heartache, mistakes and horrible things in places that don't allow divorce as there are stories of love and loyalty in places that do. Just because you can't get divorced doesn't mean your life is happy, just because you can doesn't mean it won't.

Well divorce is an awful thing to go through and the funny thing is sometimes people think there is someone out there who can make "them" happy but what they have to realize is "they" can only make themselves happy. People fall in and out of love too quick. Women and men don't respect what a relationship should be anymore. My parents have been together over 44 years. They had their good times and bad times but now that they are old they really look after each other to make sure they eat right, take medication, etc. I think people are so broken and hard in the way they think nowadays.

it may seem to be the case in today's context. life is not all so simple. there are so many complexities in life that is making it like this. still few people who can find solace in simplicity, may find way to live happilyy

I think that people don't try hard enough in relationships anymore. I think that people have a tendency to jump into a marriage without getting to know the other person that well and then if they get into a major disagreement they figure they can just get a divorce.

It is sad, if people were to try to work on the relationship more I think a lot of people would still be married.

My parents were divorce after being together for about 4 years and actually legally married for 10 years. I, on the other hand have been married for almost 19 years now. As far as I'm concerned this is my one and only marriage. We are happy with one another and sure, we have some disagreements, but for the most part we have common goals and desires.

Here in the United States, statistically, most marriages end in divorce. I think that is so sad. It would be nice if there could be a "happily ever after".



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