Affairs

United States
October 15, 2008 2:52pm CST
Just found out that I have been having an affair! Wow, did I miss something? Must have blacked out or something cuase I missed all the fun! I hate it that I have been accused. I am happily married, and I don't want this to become an issue with my husband and myself. Any comments anyone?
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6 responses
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Oct 08
It only takes suspicion, not proof to break someone's trust. Sad to hear that. Did somebody say something to him or did he come up with this on his own?
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Oct 08
I'm glad it's not your husband doing that to you! And I feel for the guy whose wife did that.
• United States
16 Oct 08
It really had nothing to do with my husband, in fact I told him that I found out that I was being accused of having an affair with someone. That someones WIFE was accusing him! She is insane.
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@fwidman (11514)
• United States
15 Oct 08
I would hope that your husband has enough trust in you and your commitment to your marriage that he will realize it is a lie and can laugh about it with you
• United States
16 Oct 08
We have a lot of trust in our relationship. The accusation didn't come from my side, but the other parties wife. I work the the accused person and because he and his wife are having problems, she accused him of having an affair with me. It is really sad when you think about it, but she is insane! I just hope that she stays far away from me.
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
16 Oct 08
That is sad when people do things like that simply because they are the ones having problems
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
16 Oct 08
If you are happily married then I'm sure your husband knows better. Someone is probably envious of your happiness. I hope it does not become an issue for you.
16 Oct 08
I've been in the same position as you are. As long as you know the truth and your husband knows the truth that's all that matters. I laugh at it because I know it is lies. Some women are just insecure and jealous. There is nothing you can do about it. It's just life!
@leahsfrog (120)
• United States
16 Oct 08
I have come across this before, where the other persons spouse accused me of sleeping with them. Gratefully my hubby is smart and trusts me enough not to get bent out os shape.
@zalilame (880)
• Malaysia
16 Oct 08
That sounds really awful. It is just basically about trust. Truth will prevail but in the mean time be patient.