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rhim_40 (17)   ranked 18,206 out of 23,126 in relationships1 year ago

During my college years i have already a Girlfriend,that time i was so happy with our relationship. We always keep on dating, hang out with our friends and helping each other. But sometimes we cannot avoid a serious problem that comes in our life and handled it well. After we graduated in college still our relationship getting stronger. She decided to go abroad and left me, I worked also in a public school.
We stayed for almost 6 years. But after six years our relationship getting worst, i do not know what to do, she break me thru a text. she told me that she has no more feelings at me, she is getting married next year, i was so shocked why she told me like that, i am honest to her, i told everything when she left in going abroad, she also broke her promises to me. She also told me that we cannot teach our feelings to whom we spend our love. I do not know what to do, looks like i was hit by a knife. But i have nothing to do but to accept the situation. This time i keep myself busy just to ease the painful this feelings i have.

 
 
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tags:  feelings, pain, love, relationship what to do
 
1. myLot reputation of 65/100. jelai24 (199)   1 year ago

i had a boyfriend in college..he was the one of my close friends....until now our relationship would not lost....i am honest to him as will as he do...even we are far we would not cut our communication....we text & call each other everyday....how i wish that he become my husband someday...


rhim_40 (17)   ranked 18,206 out of 23,126 in relationships  1 year ago

Hope you will become successful in you relationship. Thank you for sharing your experience with you boyfriend...


myLot reputation of 65/100. jelai24 (199)  1 year ago

i am pleasure to share it....welcome...i hope you find another one much better than her....happy mylotting...

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. JAREDSQUALL (376)   ranked 5,846 out of 23,126 in relationships   1 year ago

I've been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years. I consider myself blessed for still being in the relationship and somehow, we're both doing well.
I am sorry about what happened to you. I know it hurts like hell since I've experienced it too. My only say to this is let it out. The pain will stay there for quite a while until your whole self decides to move on.
I've always been angry at my ex for leaving me. I was hurting so much that my grades then went down. I didn't want to go out and when I did, I made sure I was with other people so I won't find myself staring blankly into space, thinking about everything that happened.
Now I'm in a relationship that I like. We're both happy and content. My ex sometimes communicates and believe it or not, there is no more pain. I can talk to her and chat with her and I know that I'll be okay. It's not about having another girl really. It's more of realizing that she wasn't the one for me.

Life is hard sometimes, but it will be beautiful if you let it. Good luck to you my friend.
-jared-


rhim_40 (17)   ranked 18,206 out of 23,126 in relationships  1 year ago

hi there, thank you for the advice. anyway its not yet end of the world. all i need is to find ways in order to minimize the pain i ever suffered.

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