Lonely or Happy
By ajay_dhamot
@ajay_dhamot (258)
India
October 20, 2008 6:21am CST
wat do u do to cope up with ur loneliness ?
you r alone by heart do u ever try come out of loneliness ?
r u successful?
How?
3 responses
@LilPixelle (828)
• United States
20 Oct 08
I was lonely for a while too :P lol I was so angry at everybody who abandoned me... but then one of my friends did something she had never done, and she had no idea how sad and lonely I was, she showed up on my doorstep and asked to go for a walk, God showed me that day that I do have friends with skin on, even if they arent always the best, I have them and they care, and they need me like I need them... I think my recomendation for those who are lonely would be, number 1: Pray, I know you probably want a friend with skin on, But God is a pretty good friend, and he does care and wants you to have friends with skin on too, so pray and talk with God... Its a good foundation step, he can help refuel you when you are low on happiness :) number 2 is: take a walk down main street or go to the library and try to be friendly, try talking to people, small talk is good, if they are reading, ask them if the book they are reading is any good :P if someone is walking wave and say Hello, if someone looks like they have a moment to talk, try to talk, You dont get ANYWHERE If you can't talk with people, can't make friends that way, Might also want to try joining some groups, or a GOOD church (trust me there are A LOT of bad ones, please dont judge the whole barrel of apples because of one bad one) its going to be hard for a while, but it can get better :P
@myhllim (272)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 08
I seldom feel lonely. Being alone is the best time for me to do what I want. Such as watching my favourite movie, reading magazines or listening to music. It is also a good time for me to do some self reflection as nobody would disturb me and I can fully concentrate on my mind.




