would u want to be with someone who puts u down all the time

It is never easy dealing with a relationship where one is always putting down the other for some reason or another. Most people do this because they aren't happy or have problems about themselves they don't like so put others down to make themselves feel better, atleast in my opinion. Would I want to be with someone who does this? No not really but I do love my husband and sometimes he can be like that at times if he thinks I am not cleaning enough or doing stuff I am supposed to because I do put things off till the last minute if I can and he is a person who does things to get it over with.

I would never want to be with that type of person. I even hate just to witness someone putting down another. I guess all of us deserves respect no matter how lousy we are as a person. Some people are just born to put people down and all we can do is hope one is lesser than the other. Maybe it's also God's way of making us strong by trying to be more patient because that someone may not know what he or she is doing. Someday that person will be needing you and let's hope you're still around when that time comes.

Verbal abuse is abuse too. It hurts the person at the receiving end emotionally and psychologically. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't respect me enough as a partner or a person and would rather not be supportive. Take care, jim.

Hi there, I have put up whith that kind of situation quite a bit in my life, and it actually destroys you, so bad, you loose your selfsteem, don't know who you are anymore,and at the end of the day would be crawling like the lowes creature in the ground looking for a place to hide!. I tell you what! I got out of it! and today [ thank goodness] I walk nice and tall, and proud,I know I earned! Don't ever put up whith a put down.

Hi there jimssaftytips. who wants to be with somesone who puts u down all the time. I guess people wont be happy living with that kind of person. I myself cant live with that. I want a person to appreciate the things that Ive done and franklly tells me if the things im doing is wrong. Happy mylotting.