Abortion or miscarriage

I think that abortion is on purpose and miscarriage is by accident. One of my friends was 20 years old and found that she had an unwanted pregnancy. She decided to have an abortion and did that. She felt quite depressed after that and regretted it I think. Two years later I got married and had a baby son. She was jealous and she was a bit upset. Another of my friends got pregnant aged 23 and her boyfriend proposed to her. She had a miscarriage and was beside herself with sadness. Her boyfriend said he didn't have to marry her because she was not pregnant anymore. She stayed with him and got pregnant again and she had a baby girl. They got married and had another baby girl. I think that abortion affects some ladies that get depressed and some feel relieved. I know most ladies that have suffered miscarriage are worried in the next pregnancy. Good luck in your life and you are brave for taking about your abortion. In life sometimes a mistake can happen to everyone of us. Take care.

If you are talking about health, yes, both abortion and miscarriage will harm our health very much. After abortion or miscarriage, we really have to take care of our health, perhaps need to eat something good for our health to make the recovery faster. As for abortion, the doctor who performs the surgery needs to be really experienced and good, otherwise it may harm your health too. What has already done is done, what you can do now is perhaps go and seek for consultation from doctors, see if they can help to recover your health.

Both abortion and miscarriage come with physical and emotional pain. You must try to get through the pain and heal physically and emotionally. There's no point in me telling you what you should have or shouldn't have done because what's done is done and you can't go back and fix anything. I wish good luck to you with your situation and hope things go better next time.

I would think they're different. With abortion, you purposely take away the life of the child. Miscarriage is something that happens when you had an accident. You didn;t intend to let it happen.

Hello. Thank you for sharing your story. I believe, this one is some story to share to strangers. I believe that doing abortion on your own is quite risky in terms of reproductive health because indeed it could have long term effects on your body. The consequences of abortion can be in terms of women's health or can have life implications because a lot of hesitation about abortion has been established socially and morally, thus, when you undergo abortion you have to have vindication about your decision.

As any woman who has had an abortion knows, an abortion is not a frivelous undertaking, it is a last resort. You weren't ready for a baby psychologically, emotionally or financially and you did the best you could. You either weren't willing or able to go through the pregnancy to give your child up for adoption and that's your right to not give your child to someone else. No one can blame you for making the choice you made. As to how an abortion affected your health, if you had not had the abortion, this still could (and probably would) have happened. An abortion shouldn't have anything to do with the placement of your ovaries or the development of cysts. Women who have never had abortions develop cysts. Both an abortion and a miscarriage are dealth with the same way initially. You need to go to a doctor to make sure everything made its way out of your body. If any of it got stuck, it needs to be cleaned out. The consequences in life is a fuzzy matter and is different for everyone. Hope this helped! :-)

Hello there! I am so sad to hear this from you because what you did is a choice for you to remove the life on your womb. Its an intentional move that leads you now to believe that it did had an effect to your present health condition. Miscarriage however is something that leads to sudden termination of life of the fetus due to an accident whether someone intend to do it or not. I think, forced abortion really had an effect to someone who undergone this process. If its not done well, it may have a long bad effect on you. I will suggest that you seek proffessional help so you could ask them to help you on your present condition. Pray a lot, it will help you best. Have a nice say ahead!