Daydreamer2:Have you been in love in a wrong time and wrong place?

Oh yeah lol NOt when I was young, but in my grown ups age :/ I've fallen for someone who has a family, and since Im also in a relationship, it was and still is a big NO, but it hurt. Still does. I know its the right thing to do, but I think this will stay in me forever, as a painful memory and desire.

I have not experienced love in this painful way.I have had a different approach to it. Love sees no reason. When you love someone there could be so many reasons to it. But it is us who see the reason and love the person. But then expecting the same from the other person might be wrong. We cannot force people to like us,love us, be friends with us. We are the ruler of our heart,mind and emotions.So what we feel for others is upto us , but what others feel for us is partly upto us and majorly upto the persons own thoughts. Maybe what we are and the way we behave can be liked and disliked by the other person. Feeling hurt in a situation of falling for someone is natural. But putting it as a wrong time and place may not be right. Tomorrow maybe someone can say the same for you. Just learn from this experience, move ahead. If you do believe that love is a sacrifice then do not expect a lot when in love. Do what you want to for the other person and let him/her do what they think is right as per them. Do not try to run your relation at both ends. Handle yours as the other person would be different and react differently to situations. Wounds in such cases dont last as nothing really happened.It was just one sided. Matter of time things would change. Dont feel bad. THink maybe he wasnt meant for a loving and caring person like you and did not deserve you. Feel good about it and be happy.