Will i be insane to tell you that i love you if we chat online????

Wow i wish i could say that to the lady i love, but i find it difficult to tell her, i feel like i have to be close or face to face with her for her to believe that i truly mean what i say. So far i just can't say it, even though she's welcome to talk about anything but i find it difficult to tell her

Thats what i always feared, if i tell her i love i may loose everything, the trust or maybe the friendship itself, but again there is this lady who welcome me to chat to her about anything and we would phne each other and be nice to each other

There is somehow a connection between us and as i said she live a bit far from where i am, and i feel like to tell her online while we are chating will make me somehow sound like i'm insane

I'm having the same problem too, the distance between us. What make me feel insane is the fact that she is far and i cannot really visit her anytime soon and to tell her on chatroom is like i'm afraid of her or maybe cannot stand to visit her and tell how i feel

ohhh dont be afraid, just let out your feelings, it might made you realize later that what if you really did not tell her, their is a big difference on you telling her and not telling her, at least if you tell her their is big chance for the two of you!!dont make yourself think in the future on what if's??go on...just dont rush things, maybe you two could build this little relationship through net for the mean time, and if you two are destined for each other the fate would find ways for the two of you!!happy lotting...

yes, i think we differ in feelings

I think the age cheats is one of the problems when it comes to onlne dating, i mean most people would lie rather than the honest truth and only to find that the person on the other side was serious about the relationship and when they find out...all hell brake loose

I also believe that most of people who lie about their age are us men, simply because most people who are involved with dating vhatrooms are young people from age 15.

But i think you can always tell when someone is old, when they send you their photo or when you talk to them on a webcam or even a phone call

i know there is a lot of online dating, i've also seen it break a marriage. the woman was hooked on chat lines, she lied about her looks and a few other things. then wondered why when she met one of the blokes he didn't like her that much. i then read in a mens mag not long after someone had written in and they had lied about looks etc, and were nervous about the bloke not likely them. the answer in the mag was if he runs it your own fault. there was no symponhy in the reply.

web cam would be a great idea, on the fact you can see the person. and judge from there.
it's ashame that there are so many people out there who are lieing about age, etc. cause one bad experience can turn people off chat and other things on the net.

I think is crazy, i mean how can you lie about your age, after all that cannot chage anything, what will happen if you find that the other person was serious about, what would you say? sorry?. and what i've discored again is the fact that most people like to be young, meaning if someone is 25 then they would say they are 20 or 19.

I once met someone and it happen that i go to her place unexpectetly, we were partying with friends and they decided to go party there at the other friend's home, and when i was there i decided to phone her and to tell that she lied about everything, the photo, the age and her status of marriage. and i just told her that is okay you may come and see me i do not have problem with that, to her shame she never came and said she was too ashamed about it

i've only changed my name online, and not used my real name and that was yr's ago. that's how i caught out the lier i was emailing. i had acidentally wrote my name in instead of the one i was using, i found he was doing the same thing. that's when it all started to come un ravelled. my school friends thought i was nuts emailing a bloke online, but i wasn't bothered about them. my mum was there when things turn nasty with it, and we found a few home truths out and she gave him a piece of her mind.
a friend of mine has also been caught out by age a bloke she chatted to was older than her mum, and he wanted to get married, she was only in her late teens early 20's at the time. what do you do then.

but on the other hand you don't hear as much about the relationships that start online and turn out in to marriage. they only say it in satistics, that% people meet online.
i have met one couple who did meet online, he was from the u.s.a and she was from australia. last i knew they were happliy married.

so once again it all falls back to personal choice, on what you feel and if you do find some one online you fall in love with.
have some fun cause your only young once.

I think you are right, but wont she think that i'm insane for telling her that? especially on a online chat?

No sometimes we need to hear it. I dont think she will think you are insane at all.
I hope she feels the same way as you do. Keep us updated on what she says back.

Thats was totally true, i'm begining to have some confidence now, thanks

Sounds like you are talking from experience, i've noticed that most of this peope give out wrong information, but i'm not sure why, i mean why would someone lie about their age, identity or maybe their place where they come from

since i started this kind of things i never gave any false information ever, but to my surprise i never met anyone either thats funny

I'll take your word for it, but what about the fact that high percentage of them give out wrong information? because i've just realised now that most people give wrong information when it comes to their age, where they live or their identity in general?

I have to say you have been lucky not to meet some freakz online, do you still live with someone you met online?

Me? Lucky? My most recent heartbreak was because of a man I met online and I also had a boyfriend for 2 years online who broke my heart. I wasn't lucky, I was just stupid to believe everything a man says, hahaha! You're right though, there are lots of liars online. While I do everything to be myself, post my real picture, say my real status, say my real feelings, others seem not to care and just go on and hurt you at the end. But oh well, I am an honest person and I don't regret that. I always say the truth about me, and if a guy can't live with that, he's not worth my hard work.

I never met her in person, i only met her online as i said, but i think she is true on most of the things she tells me.We contact each other trough phone calls and obviously chating online

I am always taking careful actions on everything i do, especially things like this, but now this lady sounds to be true and i feel inlove with her,but at the same time i feel like it will be insane if i tell her online or via phone call

She live a little bit far from where i live and i feel like i will cannot visit her any time soon

maybe you can let her know you would like to meet her in person and explain that you are afraid that you will not be able to do this anytime soon.maybe she will come to see you.maybe that is all she is waiting for is the ok.