Do guys like to be manipulated by their wife/girlfriend?
@totallyundecided (3190)
Philippines
November 13, 2008 4:31pm CST
well, i know answer varies but most of them, well, i asked my close guy buddies of course if they like it when their woman takes charge of them. not to the point of crushing their egos but according to my close friend, he finds it a turn on when he's being manipulated by his girlfriend. in a good way though. his latest confession was that because of his girlfriend, he was a better person now as he was before. awww...
and oh, he also said that he ended up with this girl because she's most likely his mom. from attitude and some, some. lol. is this really true?
guys? what's your say. lol.
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4 responses
@coolmailraj (2459)
• India
14 Nov 08
Hi.
I guess no one likes to be manipulated by someone else!
A bit of touch up to your personality, here and there is what should be appreciated but a complete makeover is not a good thing to have from others.
I would allow my girl to manipulate me or should I say sit on my head and order me!
@totallyundecided (3190)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
lol. you're funny. in the end, you're very submissive. cute.
thanks!
@coolmailraj (2459)
• India
14 Nov 08
Sorry dear but I got the last line wrong.
I meant " I won't allow my girl to manipulate me or should I day I won't let her sit on my head and order me!"
So, I guess I am not cute, am I?
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@totallyundecided (3190)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
lol. they just don't like admitting it.
you're the more dominant in your relationships huh? you go, girl. lol
good luck to you and to your husband. =)
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
i dont like to call it manipulated. there are situations were she decides and there are some situations that i decide. us guys tend to manipulate our girlfriend/wife too in some situations. if it is a give and take situation then that would be okay. a relationship is two minds at work if one always manipulates the other, that other loses her/his identity.
@totallyundecided (3190)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
lol. just like the first answer. =)
thanks for sharing. more power to your family,seventhbird. =)
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
really? sorry i dont read responses of others.... i only read it after the myloter has commented. i like my responses to come from my heart and my mind and that is what i type. i will take a read of the responses on your discussion after i do this. well i think there are a lot of people who thinks the same.
@mdesigning (345)
• Netherlands
13 Nov 08
No I don't think I would like to be manipulated by my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I go through everything together and none of us both manipulates each other. I don't think I would find it a turn on either but I think I can understand those guys that do.
@totallyundecided (3190)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
lol. i guess you and your girlfriend has a good sense of communication as well as compromising when it comes to each other's decision.
more power to both of you. =)
