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myLot reputation of 97/100. totallyundecided (478)   ranked 498 out of 23,177 in relationships1 year ago

well, i know answer varies but most of them, well, i asked my close guy buddies of course if they like it when their woman takes charge of them. not to the point of crushing their egos but according to my close friend, he finds it a turn on when he's being manipulated by his girlfriend. in a good way though. his latest confession was that because of his girlfriend, he was a better person now as he was before. awww...

and oh, he also said that he ended up with this girl because she's most likely his mom. from attitude and some, some. lol. is this really true?

guys? what's your say. lol.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 90/100. mdesigning (330)   ranked 7,014 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 year ago

No I don't think I would like to be manipulated by my girlfriend. My girlfriend and I go through everything together and none of us both manipulates each other. I don't think I would find it a turn on either but I think I can understand those guys that do.


myLot reputation of 97/100. totallyundecided (478)   ranked 498 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 year ago

lol. i guess you and your girlfriend has a good sense of communication as well as compromising when it comes to each other's decision.

more power to both of you.=)

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. jesssp (1223)   ranked 50 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 year ago

Guys like to say that they don't like to be 'controlled' or 'bossed around' by women but in reality I think a lot of them quite like to be told what to do. If for no other reason than it's easier for them!

I also think that most guys really do like a 'take charge' kind of woman. As long as it isn't testicle crushingly emasculating. There needs to be a balance between submissive and dominating though, and it's different for every couple.


myLot reputation of 97/100. totallyundecided (478)   ranked 498 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 year ago

lol. i know what you're getting at. just like my cousin..

he would always boast to us that he's his girlfriend's everything when in fact, it's the other way around. ahahaha!

well said, jesssp. i guess you've had your experience with your relationship, too.

thanks for sharing. much appreciated.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. se7enthbird (2669)   ranked 540 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 year ago

i dont like to call it manipulated. there are situations were she decides and there are some situations that i decide. us guys tend to manipulate our girlfriend/wife too in some situations. if it is a give and take situation then that would be okay. a relationship is two minds at work if one always manipulates the other, that other loses her/his identity.


myLot reputation of 97/100. totallyundecided (478)   ranked 498 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 year ago

lol. just like the first answer.=)

thanks for sharing. more power to your family,seventhbird.=)


myLot reputation of 98/100. se7enthbird (2669)   ranked 540 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 year ago

really? sorry i dont read responses of others.... i only read it after the myloter has commented. i like my responses to come from my heart and my mind and that is what i type. i will take a read of the responses on your discussion after i do this. well i think there are a lot of people who thinks the same.

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4. myLot reputation of 70/100. Shar1979 (2279)   ranked 4,968 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 year ago

Yeah I think guys would want them being manipulated by their partner. Not 100% though making them a robot. I had manipulated my ex boyfriends and been manipulating my husband a bit. whistle


myLot reputation of 97/100. totallyundecided (478)   ranked 498 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 year ago

lol. they just don't like admitting it.

you're the more dominant in your relationships huh? you go, girl. lol

good luck to you and to your husband.=)


myLot reputation of 70/100. Shar1979 (2279)   ranked 4,968 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 year ago

yeah but that's our secret ok? LMAO lollollol

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. coolmailraj (1366)   ranked 530 out of 23,177 in relationships   1 year ago

Hi.
I guess no one likes to be manipulated by someone else!
A bit of touch up to your personality, here and there is what should be appreciated but a complete makeover is not a good thing to have from others.
I would allow my girl to manipulate me or should I say sit on my head and order me!


myLot reputation of 97/100. totallyundecided (478)   ranked 498 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 year ago

lol. you're funny. in the end, you're very submissive. cute.

thanks!


myLot reputation of 95/100. coolmailraj (1366)   ranked 530 out of 23,177 in relationships  1 year ago

Sorry dear but I got the last line wrong.
I meant " I won't allow my girl to manipulate me or should I day I won't let her sit on my head and order me!"
So, I guess I am not cute, am I?

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