can't you love a man without a diamond  

yes i also love my bf very much as he had also never ofer a flower to me but still i love him a lot as i get lots of gift for him which he every time tell me dont get gifts for me but still i get gifts for him as i shower my love on him and he would shower his love by his love

My boyfriend is not that rich either. He not spends so much on me but I not care even he is that way. I understand our situation and for me I love him because of him and not because of any material thing he can give to me.Sometimes when there is a special occasion and he has money, he buy me gifts without me knowing it.He loves surprises very much.For me his presence is more important than any material things.Anyway, love cannot be shown by material things. Love is on how you take good care and help each other and be there always.

course you can! you should be loving the person for who he is and not for what he has.

You sound like two very responsible and mature individuals. Starting small and building on it is the way to go, especially in this day and age. Live under your means not over and you will be happy you did. Good luck!