Should you ever trust anyone completely?

@ronnyb (6113)
Jamaica
November 21, 2008 4:33am CST
Especially when there are so many instances of betrayal of trust.Wouldnt it better to hold back a little just in case they disappoint you,you will still be able to live through it?.Also why be made a fool of again,why would you want to trust anyone again Do you think it is wise to trust someone totally at first or let them prove themselves over time,a very long time.Some people are tricky,they show you a very nice persona at first and just when you start to trust them,walla!!!!,like an illusionist pulling a rabbit from a hat,the true person comes out. I say ,LIVE EASY ,LOVE LIGHT AND TRUST NO ONE-ITS EASIER ,ISNT IT ?-TRUST COMPLICATES.
5 responses
@mtata23 (354)
• India
21 Nov 08
not at all. how can one trust anybody at the first moment. trust is something that we feel after we know about the person, his/her background, behaviour.
@eliezl (610)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
absolutely not! there are many people who'll take advantage out there especially if u are sooo trusting..anyone will learn this one if they experienced being betrayed..in my case, it takes a long time to finally give my trust to a person..one has to develop it and it should be tested and proven for years..hard it may be but thats how it is.. :) i love ur motto though....its simplistic...nothing complicated. :)
• India
21 Nov 08
Your motto is truly wonderful. While its true that we must trust none, its equally true that we should never misbehave with anybody for this. While dealing with people, we should go only till that much which will not harm us in any way. That way we can help strangers and keep our interests safe, too.
@etranger (126)
• India
21 Nov 08
trust does complicate things too much but i think you will be missing on lot of things if you dont trust people .... relation exists on trust an9d one has to trust to create a new relation
@vandhu (432)
• India
21 Nov 08
well trusting every one is really not possible. you canst distinguish between cheats and really good people. trust but dont over trust. and of course if you are made a fool its really very hard to come out of it. your strategy is good.