how do you tell your best friend her husband is cheating on her

Do you think it's possible for her not to get hurt when she learned her husband is cheating her? Hurt and pain are always expected in this scenario but I guess I would really tell her no matter how painful it may be and no matter how hard I try to do so. One thing is that concealing what I know is considered condoling the betrayal act and it won't do any good as well. However, I must do it in the most diplomatic and calm way as much as I could. Its not an easy thing to take nor an easy thing for me to tell. I may tell her to clarify the issue first (even if I know already its true) and let her see it herself. I'd suggest her to pray for more strentghs to overcome the pain and be calming as much as possible for the sake of the family unity.

i will tell her directly that her husband is cheating on her if i can prove that. i will really have to make sure i dont break a relationship if that is the case./

Well it is not easy to tell a friend that his husband is cheating on her. One I don't wanna hurt her feelings. Second I don't know if she will believe me. Three I don't want to be a reason for them to quarrel. Well maybe by passing I'll ask a question like how is both of them. Is there any problem at the moment. I rather let my friend find it out on her own. I'll tell her why don't we play a game of feeling were detectives. Why not let us follow your husband. If she just gonna laugh out. Well for sure she will find it out. I rather shut up! Any6way have a nice day!

wow, i think this is a very difficult question to answer. no matter what, your best friend would be hurt for sure and even her marriage would be on the rocks. Some may choose not to tell but some will and for me i think i would depends on the situation. Sometimes, the truth hurts but it may be better to keep it away. i know it is morally not right but sometimes, pp may not take it lighty and cope with it and so i do not wish to be the one to give agony and pain to them