Sh!t Is About To Hit The Fan!! Part One?

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Yes, you read correctly and frankly I'm sick of the whole ordeal. My nephew has to move out this coming weekend and dad wants us to go up there to paint and clean the house, including dad himself. He said he'll have the neighbors check in on mom while he's gone. He has to be back here on the 8th for a very important doctor’s appointment. I told him the painting won't get done that fast plus there's the cleaning that has to be done too. As I was listening to him talk on the phone, I was letting it all sink it and when I told hubby about it, I got to thinking, no way am I leaving mom down here alone! I don't care about the damned neighbors because I had asked for help when mom was in the hospital and NOT ONCE did any of them come to my aid or dads!! So what makes him think they'll come through this time? I told hubby to call him and tell him that we can do it that he needs to stay here. Dad wouldn't hear of it and said he's going to do it HIS way and that's that. What is it about them and my brothers?? I just don't get it. Are we supposed to bite the hand that helps you? They have fought us tooth and nail when we tried to help them NOT get screwed when they bought this house but they choose to get a hotel room a half hour away from us so they could be at the office first thing in the morning which caused a big mess because some paperwork wasn't done properly and they ended up paying a WHOLE lot in taxes that they wouldn’t have had they included us in the meeting! They had asked us to help them with the process because we had just done it very recently and yet they didn't like what we had to say so they shut us out and then they got burned. We kept our mouths shut and not said a word. Then when we tried like hell to move them, we were put off and put off and put off time and time again until the very last minute when they had to be out. It was one excuse after another after another why this couldn't be taken out to be taken to the new house or that couldn't be taken or this and on and on. Once they moved in, we painted the whole house! I did most of it but hubby helped a great deal when he could. But even then, they wouldn't listen to us about what paint brand to buy!! Instead, they bought this color in this brand and that color in that brand and so on. There wasn't enough paint for the kitchen so we had to dilute it with water to make it go further because the lid was tossed out which had the brand name and the paint color. Paint cans went everywhere and out the door as soon as they were emptied which is a no no but they wouldn't listen to us! Then mom has the stroke, I had asked for help with the neighbors and none came through. I was running around like a nut case and then some. Thanks to my wonderful hubby because without his help, I'd have gone off the deep end a long time ago. Oh I get credit for that and everything else that I continue to do such as, going up there tomorrow to clean their house because mom can't do it herself. Wow! WE finally get some recognition!! But I was frowned upon with the letter that I'd given to the neighbors because it embarrassed them. What the hell am I? SUPER WOMAN???? Oh yeah, I can do it ALL myself!! NOT!! But some how hubby and I managed it and continue to do so but damn it, we've both have had enough of the crap. My brother and his asinine son stops hubby and I from going up there and painting the house by calling our parents, my brother jumps all over me over the email that I sent out and we had a huge fallen out and he was being a total and complete @ss and then about two weeks later we talked a little bit over the phone and more or less straightened some of it out. It wasn't his issue anyway but he tried to make it his. His son would call me back at all and I've called him so many times that I've lost count. I needed to know when he'd be there so we could get inside to start the work but he didn't have the human decency to call me back. Now it's a case with the rent and him promising this and that amount at such and such a date and not following through so dad told him he has to be out this coming weekend and wants us to go up there with him (separate cars) to clean and paint the house. We don't mind doing this but I'm NOT leaving my mother here for a few days or a week like dad is suggesting, it's going to take much much longer than that to get that whole house painted AND clean it from top to bottom!! So either dad or I will stay with mom. Hubby might go up with dad in our car to help him or I'll go but it's either dad or I will stay with mom because I don't trust anybody else. Mom didn't leave dad when he was down and it should be the same way this time but he isn't going to because he's very self centered as hell!! It's all about him and what he wants!! I'm sick of it!! I'm sick of getting my head put on the butcher block and I'm tired of being too afraid to say anything out of fear of them and I'm tired of being used and unappreciated. If I say anything, it's wrong. If my brothers say anything, it's gold!! WTF?!?! Do I have MORAN written on my forehead? Do I have TARGET written on my chest?!?! If so, it's not going to be there anymore come tomorrow!! We're going to sit them both down AFTER we finish cleaning and tell them exactly what is on our minds once and for all and just lay our cards on the table because we've had enough. Dad thought he'd shut hubby down when he was talking... well enough of that sh!t!! Dad says he's going to do it HIS way and that's that. OH YEAH?? We're doing all this and then some, A LOT OF FREE LABOR and it's HIS way?? AGAIN?? OH HELL NO!! NO MORE!! NO MORE!! We have some say in this when we're doing all of these things out of the goodness of our hearts only to get sh!t on AGAIN..... ain't happening this time around. It's not going to happen again. The camel's back has been broke already so why not kill it?! If this "talk" or "argument" hurts them health wise, then so be it!! We're tired of walking on egg shells and aren't going to do it ANY MORE!!!!Now tell me, is this a new trend? Bite the hands that help you!!