Here is my LOVE STORY...

If I were in your shoe I would feel really bad. And it is not fair with your side. After waiting and showing your sincerity of loving her, it seems that she took it for granted. Just be grateful that somehow you were able to fell in love. If you think you had enough of waiting, move on and continue with your life. It might be hard for you, though you can do it. Things has its own reasons why it happens. She appreciated the love you have given her, that means you have given what you think she deserves. You can find happiness with love, but not all the time. So cheer up!!!! You will do fine!

I am sorry for what you are going through.
I read your other discussions but as I was going to respond to them I saw that you wrote this so I will just answer this one.
What it sounds like to me is that the girl does not want you to think badly about her.
She wants you to forgive her so she feels better about having hurt you.
What you need to do is to tell her to quit contacting you because this is what you need.

I think you should wait some, heck you are not that old and for a guy you really shouldn't get married till later on in life anyhow. I have a stepson and he is like 27 and doesn't feel anywhere near getting committed. My husband didn't really act more mature enough to settle down till he was in his late 20's. I don't know don't jump the gun. Give her time and keep your eyes open too. I mean don't wait for her but don't be in such a rush to get married either. Once you do there is so much committment that it's not funny. Maybe she was right and understood the whole thing more than you did.

im so sorry for whatever you going through..its very sad ending story..

That's a sad story.. Waiting for 7 yrs, and ending the whole relationship in just 7 months?? Well, i cant say she's in the wrong.. She's right in some ways, as she's really young.. At just the age of 23 this yr, she still has got alot of opportunities to explore around, make more frenz and have more choices.. MAybe to her, 7 months in a relationship is long enough and thus she wants a break away..

Ask yourself, how is your relationship like in the past 7 months?? Is there alot of commitment, or there isn't much freedom for her?? I do know that u are not young anymore, but she's still young.. ONe should always place their love one's interest b4 themselves..

SO in this case here, u have to think for her.. And if u really love her, u will wait, no matter how long.. If not, it means she's just a passing shadow in your life.. Think about it^_^

Hey thats sad indeed my friend. But life is a journey and we all need to move on. i hope that the you will realize that soon and the quicker you realize it the better for you. you cannot wait back for what has gone from your life but rather you will have to move one. Because if you keep waiting and thinking over your past, you will miss out your future.
I pray to God that you get a positive love this time.
God bless you.

I think she must be confused. Still at first place why trhen she was ready to commit. it is bad to keep the other partner on toes. it is bad situation. if possible have a ckear talk with her.

Wow! 7 years??? That's a long time of waiting! I think what she's doing to you is unfair. I mean she had those 7 years to figure out if she really likes you and when she had the chance to be with you, she still couldn't see and feel it? I think the reason why she still is making her presence known is because she doesn't want to lose your love and admiration for her but I'm not sure that she will return the same feeling back for you. Sometimes girls (I'm just saying this base on how I felt before ---this is cherry, borg's girlfriend by the way)only like you because of how you make them feel. I know its selfish but its a way of coping with insecurities. Maybe she only likes you because you make her feel special. Take your chance with somebody else... Maybe you'll find complete happiness when you find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be love...

Wow!! Such a Nice and lovely story .

when i started reading your story i was so touched and happy that you too ended together but as i reach on the end i feel bad about it. i know you really feel bad about it the feeling for being dumped by the person that you truly love and you have waited for her for so long and then this was all it takes after all the waiting. I know you too are Christians and as Christians we must just lift all our hurts to God. we may not phantom His plans for us but He has great reasons for it, just trust Him my friend.

i don't think you want to drag on a relationship where your partner is not yet fully healed of her past. let her be healed and when that time comes if she comes back to you and you still have the same feeling for her that i would say you too are meant for each other. Pray for it and ask God's healing power that you may be bless with the strength to move on and live a life that God had planned for you. Let's just TRUST Him. Hope this helps. Be tough you are not alone on this!!!