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aw i wouldn't like that either. why is she forcing you to go rate it and she doesn't do in return. I think you should try talking to her nicely and see how she feels about it whether she knows that you really comment her and rate her. Good luck and hope you can keep using Ciao and solve this problem :]

Ha!ha!ha! So this friend is forcing you to be very supportive when she is not even that supportive to you. My goodness my dear don't be bothered about that kind of friend. You can always delete her if yo find her too annoying already. I mean it is alright to be reminded that she has new reviews but reminding you 3 times a day is already a disturbance. Actually if she is only visiting your reviews and rating you regularly she does not need to send you private message about her new reviews anymore because I'm sure you are already reminded of her once you see her rating your own. That is what I am doing at Ciao. Whenever I see a friend rating my review I'd immediately to to her page and rate her new reviews as well. Even if I only had one new review and I saw that it was rated by a friend. I'd go to that friends page and rate all her new reviews for the day just to return the favor. I mean it should be give and take and not just thinking of my own benefit. If I want to earn, so are the other so I make it a point to give my supportive friends the chance to earn. as well. There are other friends though who just busy making their reviews and despite being rated by me regularly, they don't even rate mine. So after some successive days of rating them faithfully, I stop and go to other reviewers so find new deserving friends.

By the way if you want to add me as friend...my name at Ciao is ladyli. Just add me and send message so I'd recognize you. I can be the best friend to all who know how to return the favor. Cheers!

Hi! I have the same feeling sometimes when some members force me to look at their reviews. And sometimes it seems they check my reviews just for the sake of getting their reviews checked! I have a certain friend who reads my review, rates them always the same word "Good Review" so that in lieu I rate his reviews too. God! I am too sick of people like that. Ok the fact that it's a site to earn money justifies them to ask others to rate their reviews but sending a PM with the line you have mentioned above is intolerable! Seems like money has taken its toll on everyone. You dont worry about it. Everyone has become so much money-minded and you can never judge anyone truly when you meet them on net. Just ignore the messages and only visit the reviews if you feel like. When they can try to be over smart then let them have a piece of their own cake.
PS- I have received the same message too from (I think) the same member!

hehehe...i rated 2-3 guys negatively ..when they pass such a remarks...loll then they delete me and never ping again

You are not alone. There were times last week that I received 3-4 messages in a day coming from one person and so I politely responded that I will just subscribe in her review so she could stop sending me messages. In that way, it will cut off of her work and at the same time avoiding spamming the site. The following day I still receive 2 messages and told her to stop it already yet the following day, I still receive a message despite 3 response I sent her. Then at that the same day, because I am already a bit annoyed despite of what I told her, I warned her to stop sending it and her last warning.

i receive messages like that too. they often say please visit my review and rate it well in fact thats against the rules, never ask for a rating. it should be voluntary.

We got different people from all over the world in Ciao. So I think just ignore him/her. If you want to read the PM, just read it like reading newspaper. After reading, you just place it in rubbish bin. It will keep your emotional level down to safety level

easy remove her from your list of friends, and tell her i dont need your assistance. please help others. and also dont pm me. i think she should get the message.
you dont have to be formal with people who do not know their limits

Hahaha!!!that is so funny. If she is going to continue to send a messa ge to you about rating her review, she might be blocked in the site. Ciao admin might discover it,and that would fall under vindictive rating. So we should avoid that because we nighyt loose our account in the site. Some members are right in saying that you just ignore that person. Actually a lot of members send me a PM but I don't rate them because I already created a good reputation in the site.

It's okay for you to feel sad about what happened but that feeling should not last for long. Just think that what you did for her is being kind. Let us not expect that everyone will return the same favor you did to him or her. We all have our own choices and we may choose to not please everyone. Just try to ask her about the situation. Maybe she was too busy that she was not able to read, rate and give comments to your review. Just do not mind those people who are very pursuing. Remember, you have a choice my friend. Happy lot! Please add me as your friend in ciao. My username is maroseqf. Thanks in advance!