How do you say sorry to your loved one?

and how often does that turn out good for you?

it turn out good everytime.

ok then thanks! i may have to try that.:P

ah the secret and sacred power of a female. wish guy's had one of those.

Yes, you are right (hehehe) We are very lucky! Cheers!

Anyway, how 'bout you? How would you say sorry to your love one?

Well..I would have to make sure she understands first off that what I am about to say comes from teh heart. I would hold her in my arms, and look right into her eyes, I would probably have my breath stop for a second and then just explain myself. I just have seen too many movies where the guy gets slapped after saying sorry.

yea...that is how i feel too, it is so hard ( because of the ego) to actually say your sorry, but you want to, you just want to show her all of your love.

well if thats how you feel then put aside your ego and show her your love and care instead of saying you are sorry which you will eventually learn to say one day cos you love her so much!!

that is pretty much the size of it yep:(

and how often does it come out in the good?

Very often! To me it all ahs to do with how you handle the discussion, you can't be upset and angry, but be open to listening to issues your love one has and be ready to say sorry and move on

so it is all in just letting the both of you know that it is in the past? and moving on from there?

hahas a secret charm eh? yea i know what you mean. I wish us guys had a charm like that. my girlfriend would probably flip if i didn't talk to her for like a week...

yea.. I can't stand few days without talking to him. It drives me crazy but that incident was different. I made a mistake, which means I have to let it cool down before anything bad could happen. I need to take the consequences...

consequences have to be of course in order, what do you do if he doesnt' want to set any and doesn't want to talk about it.

ah that charm again...all the girls say they use teh charm i see... and all the guys just say sorry. wow such an unthought of response.

Hmm how is my responsign being charming. I am by no means "charming" my boyfriend when i apologize. We have lived together for 3 years. Things happen so by giving him a hug/kiss telling him how sorry I am and that I appreciate him and everything he does I'm being charming? No, more like sincere.

point taken, it was just something that a friend of mine had said earlier that made me just have to say that . being sincere is always good:) but hwo often does that work?

It always works. Because I am always sincere. I am not the kind of person to say I'm sorry when I'm not. I am stubborn and hard headed. If I don't think I'm in the wrong, I won't say sorry for something I believe I haven't done. So he always knows no matter what way I say it or how I express it, when I do, it's sincere and true. I'm not one for playing games, so I'm not sorry I don't say it, if I am, I do. Pretty straight forward. Honesty is always the best policy.

ok thanks for your esponse that really covers all bases heh. i also liek tha tlast line, thanks i will have to remember that for a poem...

Ok well what if she is giving you the silent treatment?

and thanks for your response.

yea a hug and a kiss is the most common thing I have heard so far. I really should start tallying it:)

I am in a situation with a similar manner(I'm a guy with a girl) and I try to say sorry even when she is in the wrong and it ends up hurting the relationship. been together a year and a half, been through alot(I'm 27, she is 24) and gotten through it all. I just told her after four days that I'm done asking whats wrong. I try to sympathize and she wont let me in. Yes, a hug and a kiss would end it all, but she wont even meet me half way. Good luck and god bless, but I'm hurt and dont know this outcome. BTW, we have never cheated and she is as kind hearted as I am and wont talk to me. I dont know what to do, but I do know how much I love her. I just wish I could fix this with chocolate or something because I miss her and think about her 24/7. Women just dont know, they have what they want but dont see it sometimes. There are too many bad guys out there that mess it up for us good guys. We do finish last... and it really hurts sometimes:(