why is it so important that guys want to know when you lost your virginity

@weasel81 (2496)
Australia
December 25, 2008 12:42pm CST
this has bugged me for yrs, my partner wants to know who i lost my virginity to, and i never told him. cause it is one thing i believe that you can keep a secret, unless you want to tell. it just seems so important to men about virginity and who you've been with?
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@Seyduna (129)
• Turkey
26 Dec 08
I think it is because we have a selfish side inside.We want our lover or wife to be totally ours all pure and not touched. I m not one of those who think like that Women's disadvantage is their virginity can be tested if wanted but noone will never understand if Men are virgin or not =) This principle makes Men more confident towards women in this virginity issue
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@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
28 Dec 08
yes we all can be selfish, not that men like to admit things. some are cool about issues where others aren't. thanks
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• United States
25 Dec 08
I doubt he really wants to know even if he says so. Just say what does it matter I'm with you now and that's what counts. Merry Christmas!
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@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
27 Dec 08
i've tried that, he may drop the subject then will it up again at a later date. i'm sick of trying to tell i don't think he needs to know. have a good new yr.
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@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
26 Dec 08
I guess people are just hung up on virginity and maybe they get turned on by the information. Who knows if they are imagining things when you tell them about it. Cheers!!
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
28 Dec 08
thankyou
• Philippines
26 Dec 08
I don't care whether the person I am with is a virgin or not. As long as I lover her and as long as she loves me, that is all that matters.
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
28 Dec 08
nice to know that some people perfer the more important things in life. and not worry over little things in the big picture.
@chulce (1537)
• United States
1 Jan 09
I wondered that one time and finally got the nerve to ask my husband. He said that it was because he found it to be a turn on that I was interested in being with other men. A lot of times, you hear stories of how most women actually wait until they get married before their first encounter. If you ask a number of men, you may be surprised to find out that it is in some aspect a turn on.
@busky5 (3164)
• Thailand
24 Jul 09
May be he want to prevent you from your old lovers.If he can know when you talk with your old lovers. He will order you not speak with your old lovers.I think you are right.You don't tell him.
@lovesummer (1162)
• Malaysia
28 Dec 08
who is that guy keep asking about a girl virginity he is such a childish person to me! grrrrrrrrrr