Is saying the words "I love you" enough?

I think we should live on the philosophy of "let things show their truth themselves".
When you are dating someone, you wonder whether (s)he you or not. but Never go fidgeting with the question. But the moment he/she proposes, we go all out and really wonder whether he/she does. Then we ask them again and again whether they love us. Find reasons to beleive they don't Comon guys take things easy. When the other person says I love you, take his/her word for it.

Hi fast! Saying Iloveyou is not enough of course, there are many needs, longings, and desires that a love relationship can fulfill,I guess we have to define not only the love feelings but the state of being in love relationship,it is being's the most important person in someone else's life, so that there is mutuality of affection, concern, commitment and the joy in the existence of the other.

Saying I love you requires effort and work, a person is not likely to be content if the relationship does not provide some substantial satisfaction, say, emotional intimacy, emotional and practical support affection and companionship. But still, all thing's is up to you!:) Happy mylotting!

sometimes they are enough, sometimes they arent it all depends the actions that follow them.
but these days everything is said then done. it become mere of words

I can say that saying "I love you" is not enough to show your love to someone. Words can be deceiving. People can say "I love you" to someone easily. In fact, people can pretend to say it even if they not really mean it.On my own opinion, it is better to say " I love you" in actions. It can be proven on the lines "Action speak louder than words". It is the evidence if what you say is true or not.Love can be proven in so many ways. It can be shown by care and support to one another. It can be shown by letting the other to know that there is someone whom he or she can rely on. It is by letting someone feel that there is someone for him or her who can he or she can be with, be it on good times or bad times.What can be the importance of saying "I love you" if those words will not reflect it? I can say that words without action is useless.Spoken words must be justified with actions.Through that, one can determine if what is said comes really from the heart or not. Hope this helps.

it's hard to define such things today, people often says drink water will be satisfied if people in love, but todays most of people changes their opinions and regard moeny more important than infant love~~ we can do nothing but look into one's eyes when we say"i love you".best wishes.

Ya rite! just saying "I Love U" is not enough..u should really have to show ur affection in different ways n moreover caring is loving...

Hello There! Words and actions are important in a relationship. You can just say you love the person but not showing it thus you can't show them you love them without saying a word how much you love them because it can be misinterpreted or somethings. It works both ways for me. I tell my boyfriend that I love him so much and I meant what I said... with sincerity... at the same time, I show him that I love him by spending time with him online since he is far away from here.

Take care!

Happy Mylotting and Happy Holidays! Cheers!

"I love you" are words that can be enough in some situation and not enough in others as well. Sometimes people in love are far from each other because of personal reasons and with that the words "i love you" are enough for them for a while but later on as they miss each other, the fact that actions are needed to show their love each other makes the three words vulnerable.

As for knowing if the love is true or not, I guess in love, you'll just know it. And one should always remember that every relationship does not only depend on love alone, there is responsibility, faith, and trust.

I still think saying the words are still as important as SHOWING how much you really mean it.

You might do a million wonderful "loving" deeds but one can only guess and some people like myself would still want to her those lovely words.

on the other hand, if all they you say "I love you" but treat the receiver like crap, honestly that would be cheap words that holds no value nor worth. In this case what is the point. It cheapens the entire meaning of those 3 lovely words.

i think both are important "to love" and "say that you love"...firstly we should make the other person feel that we are available when she needs us, we are caring and ready to listen to her whenever she want to share something with us, this will automatically make her feel that you love and care for her...and on top of that if you say to her once in a while that you love her that would be perfect...