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myLot reputation of 98/100. sweetie1026 (1099)   ranked 809 out of 19,372 in questions & answers1 year ago

I am in a situation that i can't describe or understand fully. I know, i have been quite strong but now there is this fear inside me that i don't understand.Something in my life has been wonderful for a time now and i am happy about it. But as time moves on, i am getting scared of what it would become in the end. I want to enjoy it while it lasts, but the thought of i might lose it scares me so much. There are times that i just want to cry because i am happy and because i am so scared to be lonely again. Would appreciate your thoughts about it. Thank you.

 
 
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salonga (4652) response was accepted on 5/15/2009.
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tags:  life, future, moves, happinnes
 
1. myLot reputation of 97/100. pergammano (2001)   ranked 215 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   1 year ago

I think, sweetie1026, you are afraid to seize the moment! Grab it...hold on to it for all it's worth, and STOP the negativity, or you might turn a rainbow into a stone. Remember the expression, "it's better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all." My first thought is to caution you...get rid, no matter how hard of those negative thoughts, as you can dampen great spirits with negativity.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sweetie1026 (1099)   ranked 809 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  1 year ago

As of the moment, that is what i am doing. But i am so afraid that while i hold on to it and seize it, then it would be so much harder to let go and i don't think i can overcome the pain as i have before. But i will try to do what you have said and i hope that i be strong enough and have the courage to do it. Thank you so very much. I hope to be in your friends' list.


myLot reputation of 97/100. pergammano (2001)   ranked 215 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  1 year ago

sweetie1026...relish in happiness, there is no guarantee's in this world! Seize the day! Please don't cloud the issue with your fears, because you can cause those fears to become reality just by dwelling on them! And if you rallied before, you know you have the strength to do so again! I know I sound like a broken record....but, gee whiz, my friend, don't be the cause of this bubble bursting! Yes, you are a wonderful friend!

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. salonga (4652)   ranked 26 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   1 year ago

I don't think you should think and worry a lot over something that has not even come and in fact is not even sure to happen. You said something in your life has been wonderful and you are happy about it. So why worry? Why not just keep on doing your best to keep this wonderful thing in your life and then pray to God not to take this away from you. Why worry when you can pray? Remember that God holds the future and we must trust Him that what ever He'd give us in the future, it is always for our own good.

Also, remember that what we do today reflects our tomorrows. So if we do what is right each day expect your tomorrows to be right as well. Now of course, the Lord says in this life there will be tribulations...it is not always roses that we are gonna walk through. Sometimes even if we are doing what is right and striving hard to keep our life smooth, there still are thorns we have to walk through too. The trials and problems still do come our way. Those trials and problems are God's tools to mold us into better persons and for us to realize that we need Him after all. So if and when in the future...God takes away that wonderful thing that makes you really happy today, don't despair. Just trust that God has something better in store for you after removing that thing you already thought to be the best for you. On the other hand if things go as you wish then thank God for it. Just always remember that God knows that is the best for you. Just believe in God, entrust your whole life in Him and live life in accordance with His will. God is good and He knows how to reward His obedient children.

God bless!


myLot reputation of 98/100. sweetie1026 (1099)   ranked 809 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  1 year ago

Thank you, so very much for a very inspiring response. Yes, i know that only God can help me on this, how i wish that He hears my silent prayer for it to lasts. God bless you too my friend!

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. longbangod (1262)   ranked 1,561 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   1 year ago

Are you talking about someone? Someone so dear to you? If you are in love with someone or you are both in love with each other, don't worry about loosing him, he might be the one destined to be your lifetime partner, granting both of you are already free. Take time to know each other well and if theres a chance, why not get married, just don't forget to invite me okay? I can be a primary sponsorhappy.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sweetie1026 (1099)   ranked 809 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  1 year ago

You'll be the first to know if it happens. Thank you, my friend and God Bless us both!

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. arun2009 (2982)   ranked 155 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   1 month ago

Lol just now i responded to a discussion of yours, i am aware of such things happening in your country, have faith in god things will be ok soon.
Thank you so much for this discussion. lolI enjoyed responding it keep sharing, rasp cheers surrender
Happy posting.
ARUN


myLot reputation of 98/100. sweetie1026 (1099)   ranked 809 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  1 month ago

It is so nice to hear friends from other countries say that they are aware of things happening here, appreciate it. Yes, things are ok now and i am happy with the way they are going. Thank you for taking the time to respond. Good to have met a new friend on here. Keep in touch.

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. jpso138 (3697)   ranked 126 out of 19,372 in questions & answers   4 weeks ago

I am indeed happy for you. Being happy is really great. I also understand your fear. Well, you must remember that life is full of surprises and nothing is permanent in this world. But the thing is, you are happy right now, so enjoy the moment and feel great always. If you spend your time worrying, then you will certainly not enjoy. Just pray that everything will continue to be fine and have faith. I am sure that with such attitude, you will certainly be fine.


myLot reputation of 98/100. sweetie1026 (1099)   ranked 809 out of 19,372 in questions & answers  4 weeks ago

Thank you, my friend. Right now i do try to enjoy and be happy with what is happening in my life. I try to forget about my fear, and yes it feels good. Thanks, again.

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