How do we maintain a good relationship??  

as I am single now so can't have such an beautifull life now but yeah I believe that faith the key of healty relationship
thanks for sharing

There are lot of things we have to do to maintain good relationships w/ our partners. One thing I can suggest and we actually are doing w/ my spouse is saying sweet things to each other everyday. We never fail to say "I love you" to each other even we're just inside the house; there were times when he stood up from his games or from the computer and goes to the kitchen where I do dishes and just hug or kiss me (just for nothing). At work he calls me 3-5x a day just saying "Hi" and "I miss you". I guess those little things keep us more intact and loving as couples. I admit basically am not that demonstrative and affectionate but I learned to do by now because of what he does to me and to our relationship. One thing I learned from him is resolving conflicts through conversations; he always approach me first to talk about the fights and try to resolved it by talking and not avoiding to each other (as what I usually do....lol). Well I guess those are what I can share as of mine. Am sure you can get more from the responses in here. Happy mylotting!

According to me good relationships start with a foundation based on trust, respect, commitment, support, stability, and self-confidence.always be honest and have trust in one another. Things have a better outcome when there is honesty in the relationship. People who tend to hide things just end up making matters worse for themselves because the truth eventually comes out sooner than later.Best part of the relationship is to have communication. Never let one person in the relationship do everything, always share obligations.make sure you talk about everything and let your partner know exactly what you are feeling. It is never good to hide what you feel. If you feel something, let them know because if you don't then the day you decide to do it, it might be too late. Things are better when everything is out in the open.

i dont think there is a relationship with no hastles and arguments, but it depends how long will you make a big deal out of it. me and my wife of course do have our misunderstanding and sometimes finding ourselves shouting at each other. but we always resolve that in just one click. i am sometimes hard headed and does not listen to her often. what i believe sometimes does not work so she really gets angry at me. for example our child was not feeling well last week. he was vomiting and poo poo often. as we are going to the doctor we pass at KFC and both something to eat. i let our child drink ice lemon tea and she told me not to. she said all our child needs to drink now is gatorade or a drink for kids that can rehydrate him. and big silly me didnt care. what i am thinking is this is what my child wants and this is what i will give him. unfortunately as we reach the doctor she said that, for the mean time we can not give him something like that. just water and pedialite, a drink for kids to rehydrate him. my wife is correct and i was not paying attention. but after that i will say sorry then that ends there. we dont make a short arguement a big deal. i think we learn everyday new things and as years go by we learn how to adjust and to give way on each others tuntrums and short comings. it would be boring without any arguements but the lesser the better. i would rather watch tv and hug her close than nagging at each other. arguments adds spice to the relationship but too much spice will ruin it. even food if you put too much spice you no longer know the real taste of the food

Maintaining a good relation
Love really is strong to hold a relation. But there is much more to do if you are
married. You should always be open with your partner. Never try to hide anything from him/her.
Its always good to say about things he/she loves. If you can cook him/her his/her favourite dish or help your partner in any way that'll make a difference. If you have children both of you can play with them. Always eat together. There will be lot of change if you actively bring children in to your relation.

Your partner may have tastes to which you have indifferences. But even then there are many things which are common. He/she may like the same songs you cherish to hear. Who don't like songs? Try to learn what makes him/her happy.

I think relationships flourish when we're sincere. Having too many expectations can ruin any kind of relationship. I think if we learn to let go of our expectations and love one another unconditionally and always be sincere about our givings, then it can help build a stronger relationship. Personally, I think it's ok to have bad moments in a relationship. Having a great relationship doesn't mean we can't have our differences and stop arguing altogether. As long as there's communication and understanding, I believe any relationship can become stronger. :)

For a long and healthy relationship between couples, the most important things that are needed are : caring, sharing and understanding. Whatever problem arises try to resolve it at the earliest.Arguments are very common in married life. BUt take care that your arguments do not prolong more than 2 hours. Make sure that you end the argument before going to bed and do not continue for the next day. Also never fight in your bedrooms. The most important point is never ever argue before your kids.

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