why does some men tends to womanize?

The guy like and loves the girl mostly because of some good qualities that he finds in her. The girl may not always have this kind of selective loving. Most of the time they blindly love the first guy who say 'I love you' to her. This is a nature of men and women since ages. The guys always talk about the girls since they are interested in them generally in the outward sense. I don't say all guys, because there are many men who love their wives unconditionally. In this case, the guys were not. So they got attracted to other women since they found qualities that they like in these women and which were not found in their wives. When the concept of marriage gets changed from the traditional 'all throughout the life' contract to the 'use and through contract', such things happen. I don't say that all women should have all the qualities that they can find on earth. What I am saying is that your unconditional love can work wonders in this kind of situations. I think that men should stop going after all the women who they find as perfect and start caring for their wives. Nobody is perfect. And same is the case with women. If guys start going after the perfect women, they will never end their search.

It just depends from person to person.
Take for example a two kids. One becomes happy with a single candy and doesn't want more while the other wants more and more and more.
Its a sort of addiction. Those who are morally strong are able to control their lust and those who don't, they do go for such things, and in the event go on hurting, cheating their partners.
It also depends upon the way people see things. For some, it is correct and for others, it is not. It entirely depends from person to person, like I said.

it maybe because of upbringing,they might have seen their fathers not being faithful to their mothers.another thing is,they might be insecure about themselves,that they try to get the approval of other women.they may be thinking,being a womanizer is cool.

Hi friend, men who are looking for another woman aside from what they have at present are not contented of their partner. There is something lacking that they need to look for it from another woman. If the man is satisfied and contented with their partner, they will never look for another recipe. Most men who are womanzing have problems with their partners.

Hi there! Well first I'm no guy but I've been wondering of the same thing and it's good that you started this discussion and I've learned quite a bit from other people's replies.

I personally know people who womanized even though they were married. Although they're "a change man" now, I still see them tainted with that thought. I think that men seek the thrill of being with someone they shouldn't be - it somehow makes the relationship more exhilarating and take pleasure in it.

I'd like to warn these guys that they would end up being chased by the ghosts of their past in their children. You'll never get peace of mind when your daughter starts dating because you're thinking that the guy she's with might just be doing the exact same thing you did to their moms. This is mainly the reason why they become strict dads.

As I said, these are my observations from such guys:)

Thanks for the response on my discussion!

I have found that men are very simple and women are very complex. When a relationship starts men like all the bedroom things and the women like the love. But, then they get married or in a long relationship and the women think well we don't have to do the bedroom thing so much I have other things to do. And, the men think what happen to the bedroom thing's?

My husband say's that some men cheat because they get bored with their wife and others because it is the thrill of the hunt! Which he thinks is stupid on the guy's part. He say's just because you are on a diet so to speak does not mean you can't look at the menu but to go further is just wrong. He say's he never knows what I will do next so he does not get bored with me! He say's there is something new around here every day!

** Peace and Love get's you through everything in Life**

Thanks to the feminist.

men, womanize because they are trying to hide something,maybe some weaknesses, or some inferiority,, others just want to have fun, or to feel macho.. some also are just being unfaithful...and in fairness others womanize because of women also...

yes u said the fact about that i really encourage what u say....

Haha. That is funny. Probably some of them feel like they have to keep up with what happens around them.